| Title | : | How to Trust Someone in a Relationship and Get Over The Fear of Getting Hurt |
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Lisa, 2 years ago I was in an abusive relationship with a sociopath I was on anti-depressants and honestly on the verge of death, I didn't know how I would die but I could feel it close I discovered your channel and I can honestly say that not only can I attribute me getting out of that relationship to your wonderful videos, but you also helped me kickstart a whole healing process that has transformed me and my life I love you for everything you have done for me and other people who are in desperate need of help From the bottom of my heart, thank you Dear One xoxoxoxox Comment from : Tiger Priestess |
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You speak right to my heart, so easy to understand what you're talking about It's like listening to a good friend over a cup of coffee❤ Comment from : M M |
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Fantastic content, Lisa SO helpful Thank you!! ❤ Comment from : forestsprite11 |
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No, I never felt secure at all in my home growing up As the last of 5 children, I felt treated like another mouth to feed that only took away from what my siblings had before I came along Comment from : Lucy Braun |
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Lisa, you're amazing Thank you 🙏🏼 Comment from : Waters555 |
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00pm Comment from : Jessica Calves |
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Thank you for this video - I'm struggling with trust issues now after being hurt multiple times from my previous relationships I hope to heal like you one day 🙏 Comment from : Anilide |
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I cannot afford you course and I so much need it Thanks anyway Comment from : Chez Chisholm |
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Being vulnerable Comment from : Hank Hill |
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Every single person in my life has given me reasons to not trust them At 55 yrs old I feel like Im manifesting this at this point, because how could I be THAT unlucky? Comment from : PearlJamAndBiscuits |
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What tools do I use to learn this ability to trust? How do one learn to trust again? Comment from : Veronica Martinez |
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Never trust again and you won't get hurt again Everything is designed to be against you Comment from : Fijian Traveler |
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Wow, so now I know why I shut down and push people away when they disappoint Talk about self fulfilling,yes I do this too Comment from : Yvonne |
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In therapy, and based on my perspective, my mother was most likely a sociopath and my dad a psychopath I was groomed to be a victim of similar people so once I got out a year ago, I realized my whole life has been riddled with toxic people My trust issues are so bad, I don't even have expectations of people Comment from : Eliot Hutchins |
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This is awesome wisdom Thank you for taking the time to do it Comment from : Jonathan Grigsby |
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I sat in my car and cried while watching this This is exactly everything I needed to hear I love how you speak and I am excited to follow your journey moving foward brThank you so much br-Sarah willaert Comment from : Sarah Willaert |
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Your videos are so insightful, thankyou x Comment from : Emma Cowles |
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How do I stop comparing my new boyfriend to all my previous relationships? Like I have a gut feeling every guy I date is cheating on me, but I overthink and see anything they do as “oh they could be cheating cuz they showered after work” stupid stuff like that How do I know if my gut is wrong or right? — I also loved this video I am looking for support anywhere to get over my trust issues My trust has been berated since I can remember by family I thought the same thing you did as a 8 year old I had my whole life planned out to live alone in New York and have a dog I never pictured another human in my future But now I’m dating I can not trust anyone Comment from : Hope Richard |
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growing up my parents were the least reliable people i ever met they never met my needs or invested in me we were all social outcasts and i was bullied and cheated on multiple times dumped by the one girl i loved now i’m in a relationship with someone that truly unconditionally loves me and wants to marry and i really am struggling to trust her even though she’s shown me i can i’m thankful for this video and your advice much love Comment from : Man |
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Wow , you're such a smart person Comment from : 504 to 618 Cajunland |
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Everything you said in this video is the truth to my life You seem to be the person who speaks my exact thoughts It’s so good to know there is still hope for me because you are proof of that Thank you Comment from : Jennifer Barber |
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Get Dr Gbenga love bind spell and forget about trust issue, mine is working effectively, we love each other like never before Comment from : Karl Angelina |
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I have issues with trust I was hurt in the past I don’t have a secure relationship with my parents most especially my father He cheated on my several times and that resulted to a deep trauma for my mom At 16-18 I was bullied by my so called friends Calling me ugly and names… now that I have a relationship of my own, my trust issues is sabotaging my relationship with my boyfriend He’s been complaining and telling me to trust him We almost broke up and I felt like that was the point where I have to help myself or stop my negative thoughts and paranoias I have to change I really don’t know where to start Comment from : LA MODÉLISTE |
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🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 Comment from : LA MODÉLISTE |
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These black subtitles are so helpful thank you so much Comment from : Angie P |
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This is so encouraging and gives me hope to learn to develop healthy attachments Comment from : Hi its me Faith |
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When you dont call on her birthday but you were working and you ask for forgiveness as well as to make it up to her Comment from : Antonio Boyd |
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I was with this man I Was so afraid of getting hurt again had my guards up to high Comment from : Lady Yella |
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You're so honest!! Comment from : Nitin Balodi |
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I have trust issues because I allow toxic people to control my mind and emotions and play ony emotions so I believe there crap now I am in a situation where my life was nearly destroyed over one person recently now I lack trusting anyone Comment from : buda1895 |
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Excellent clear advice Thanks Lisa ♥️ Comment from : G55d H555r |
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Oh my goodness How can I meet you This video was air to my life Gonna buy your books Comment from : TD Long |
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Damn Comment from : Zen W |
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Wowwww if this isn’t the one!!!!!!!!! Comment from : SUPERSPEAKS |
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Powerfull information, just what i needed, thanks Comment from : Robert Lebacs |
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Ive only ever had relationships with narcissistic womentheve all abandoned me in the endand now i dont think i can do it anymore Comment from : Ken Egan |
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I’m still trying to get over my past relationships It’s very hard and I’m in a relationship now I overthink 24/7 and I’m trying to trust him hes never gave me a reason to not trust him but I’m trying to move on from my past and I just need a way Comment from : Jay Jay |
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First off I just want to thank you for this video Honestly speaking this video has done light years of wonders inside of me where I actually just done a huge amount of soul searching and understand why I have the feelings I have and how I am coping and healing from my past And I’ve learned understanding the dark side I possessed within myself that I were unaware of far as insecurities and how that can affect other friendships/relationships etc and It’s crazy because before I was depressed however I knew within myself exactly what’s happening in which I were going through a metamorphosis/ breakthrough and now I believe my soul within me is finally awakening if that makes sense God bless Comment from : Antwuane Johnson |
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How can I attend your class? Is there anyway I can get a one on one Or anyway I can email or send a message I've been on a long road to recovery and I've been watching your videos for a while and I can relate in so many ways but I would really like to take the next step and heal those childhood wounds I have books and I can watch videos but I'd really like to do like something like a class or something that holds me accountable I don't know if I'm making any sense but if you can get back to me or send me a link for a class or something I would really appreciate it!!! Comment from : Karina Bourcy |
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Full of lies Comment from : Jaxbigfax Henny |
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Lisa, thank you, great advice, it is so true Comment from : Iza Waniek |
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I never had a relationship with a boy/guy/man, and I currently I have no friends I always thought I couldn't talk to people etc because I thought that was a lack of self-confidence But now I suddenly realized that it's because I'm just worried/scared(?) of letting anyone in my space, of having to care for someone, of having someone knowing any tiny little thing about me, of getting hurt after investing in a relationship, and definitely scared of having an open-trusty-vulnerable and comfortable relationship because I'm just sure it can't possibly work out Comment from : irmalair1 |
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5:59 omg that's me 100000 Comment from : irmalair1 |
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If you're gf is like ING other mens photos on Instagram is that a sign please Comment from : Matty Mobbs |
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10th January 2021 5:17 p m Comment from : J C |
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Everything you've said is the very reason I am unable today to be in a relationship with anyone I stay to myself, and keep everyone at arms length I allow no one inside and don't know how to get out of it I will die alone and I've embraced that Comment from : Jay C |
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OMG THIS IS ME I’ve hurt my daughter unintentionally so much while being wounded And I think my mom didn’t even know what she was doing Comment from : Lady Africka |
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Thankyou, this makes so much sensebetween over trusting to not at all Comment from : karen tonks |
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This video really hit home for me ! Comment from : Dustin Puckett |
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Came across this video, while bursting out in tears I needed this! Staying Hopeful Comment from : Craftbar804 |
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Can we do something on recovering relationships with your kids??? Comment from : Light Upon LIGHT |
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i get afraid of talking to boys bc im scared that they will turn against me or expose me in some way and that causes me to have anxiety and thats why im sort of noncommittal and have slight trust issues ty for this video as it helped and do u have any advice?? Comment from : JORDYN ROSE |
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This is what I needed Thank you 🙏 Comment from : Purple Clover |
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This message felt like I'd told you my whole life and you told me what to do Thank you x Comment from : Jenna Whyman |
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Wow your so right I thought I got cheated on and I didnt I was highly reactive There was no grey, no reasoning I almost lost my husband Comment from : Mishawn Roberts |
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But is it obligation? Am I obligated to be in a relationship? What if I'm happy alone and single? Why risk that happiness when it's not guaranteed in a relationship if I'm 100 happy alone and it is guaranteed ? I am not going to lie to myself or cheat myselfand I'm not going to gaslight myself? So, why bother with relationships at all if I feel safe, worthy, valued, and respected all on my own? Comment from : g |
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Lived an abusive childhood Ex husband cheated, marriage only lasted 5 years My husband now of 23 years had an affair When does it STOP?!!!!!! Comment from : Tammy Snide |
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Deepest gratitude sweet soul 🌸 Comment from : Michelle Letch |
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Hey Lisa - Manhattan, a Job and Cats - Sounds Great!! Have to see New York City, before I die This is a Great Video - You are gifted in this and Love Your Videos! Thank You, Lisa God Bless You! Comment from : Kim Van Note |
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MsRomano- wellness looks amazing on you- you look resplendent! Thank you for sharing your healing journey with us Comment from : happy lindsay |
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Thank you for your explanations and examples It’s fascinating how easily I am able to connect with the things you say So grateful that in my low insecure moments of pain and realizations, I can access the knowledge and tools necessary to get through them Comment from : C Mcintire |
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Thank you Comment from : New 2020 |
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i trust know one Comment from : LYNN YOUNG |
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I don’t trust anyone ppl r very shitty these days it’s sad but true Comment from : Mary Motherofgod |
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I have to trust her because my living arrangement depends on it, but I know she is waiting for the right moment to weaponize it against me Comment from : tom darco |
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Gratitude:) Comment from : Truth Eternal |
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On point Everything you said is true Comment from : Kat Aglipay |
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There is no love anywhere in this world Comment from : John Wick |
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If you dont trust it's usually for a good reason I did'nt trust easily and had made progress in my life and confided in a couple of people Now the narc has infiltrated them and i wish i'd never trusted them Comment from : carmen miranda |
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My goodness you are so accurate with your descriptions of this trauma I am thankful you are using your experiences to uplift the rest of us who also endured these experiences 💙 May you be blessed forever and always Comment from : KWPK |
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You are an angel! Thank you! Comment from : Karen Unicornette |
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Lisal wish l had this info When a little younger Comment from : susan johnson |
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Your speaking about me , i wasn't alone ,thank you Comment from : Freedom |
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Learning too trust myself first, my life is about me now , i am enough, i am me , ,i totally understand you Comment from : Freedom |
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🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈brHope you are alright Eat Well🌈brKeep Warm Stay safe Stay Strongbr🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 Comment from : MYKEYCARD |
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Help my codependency, I didn't know! Comment from : Ms Verner |
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You just told 80 my life, I'm so hard on myself! I'm around this male friend that helps me, but it seems like love bombing He likes to say I wish I had a friend that would do what I do Sometime I say no thank you and it seems like forced or pressed on me I'm not his friend for the help, its jus maybe cause its been of knowing him Comment from : Ms Verner |
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When the person has too lie constantly , steal from me ,slander my name and assassinate my character I lose all my respect for them Period end of story That's highly disrespectful , rude and childish One more thing especially if they have too lie about things that no one really needs too lie about Anyways so glad you make these videos Lisa Comment from : Mike |
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whos?? Comment from : Muhd Iskandar |
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Lisa, you are the BEST Your videos are really helping me in so many ways I'm 68 years old and finally dealing with these issues What's scary is the amount of anger I feel, but I think that is a good sign At least I'm angry at the people who done me wrong and not myself! My parents are both dead now, so the past is the past and cannot be undone I hope to be able to just find some peace, to let go of the anger, and maybe, just maybe, find a little happiness before I die Comment from : Tim Detmers |
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I have a lot of trouble trusting these days due to past wounds caused by other people There are those close to me whom I trust, but since we all have flaws, they have done things that were hurtful, without wanting to, same as I've done to them But instead of moving on, I have fears related to that and a huge mistrust caused by those fears that just lingers and stays there Comment from : DarthShadie Lavellan |
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Beautiful video Thanks for sharing your self-reflective thoughts about you and your children, what could hurt them Its a blessing! My parents never did anything wrong in their lives Comment from : veruc w |
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thank you for this message was so important to me and it all makes sense to my trust issues I have today!! brI'm doing my best to heal step by step the damage of childhood and toxic relationships have had on me thank you I listen to your videos often and they do help me alot to keep situations in the right perspective xo Comment from : Ms G |
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I didn't have trust issues until after the awaken/breakdown Now, I listen way to hard, look at intentions, it's exhausting I'm finally getting back to myself almost every day That's a good thing Comment from : Mindy Johnston |
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I was too trusting that’s why I got into this toxic relationship with my ex 20 years in prison would have been a far better, less traumatic experience NOW I trust nobody which has created a big problem in my life at 53 I can’t trust another man Comment from : Sandra |
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Do you chat, are you friends with dr les cater? Comment from : Wanda |
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Hmmm, what about over trusting and oversharing with strangers Comment from : Ge |
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