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Staying stuck or moving forward | Dr. Lani Nelson Zlupko | TEDxWilmington

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It's SOUNDS like the Good Cookies for dessert version thanks Comment from : Gerald Lewis

I'm JUST KEEPING The FAITH day in day out I recommend this for YOU ALL Comment from : Gerald Lewis

I'm JUST KEEPING The FAITH day in day out I recommend this for YOU ALL Comment from : Gerald Lewis

TICKET TO RIDE is my favorite and BIRTHDAY SONG for my Birthday month July this year only So far Comment from : Gerald Lewis

I'm Not Prejudice I'm Just a Victim of Circumstances Comment from : Gerald Lewis

Great perspective I’m looking forward to hearing more from her I will be looking her up to follow her Comment from : Al-Saadiq Banks Urban Fiction Author

Thank you Perfect talk for me today Comment from : Connie Jarrett

This was a very Good, informative Ted talk that i needed at this point in my life to remind me that we can control our destiny by using the correct steps, Thank you speaker! ❤ Comment from : JClar72

She got to the point of not the problem as the focus, but how you approach it with an attitude to changebrShe is good at what she does! Comment from : Cindy Halpern

fear "apparently we're all still here",, yeh, except for the people who did die from their cancer, or are on the street or unemployed, or their strategy of running headlong didnt work this is rubbish!! Comment from : Dan F

like someone who didnt do their homework trying to stretch a 2 minute talk into 15 min saying the same words over and over, long pauses one of the worst ted talks ever Comment from : Dan F

8 minutes in and all she does is rehash the title of the talk grade D- Comment from : Dan F

Just watched this Aside from learning from the video, I also learn whenever I read some comments here Very informative! Comment from : Charmaine Samson

I hope those kids have therapy and help Comment from : People are people

Very well said But when we turn back in the direction of who we are and what we want People call us with names " arrogant, selfish " forgetting that they made us take this direction They play victims Very tough to deal such people😐 Comment from : Uma maheswari

you can get your kids to be cooperative its learnable?? omg Comment from : Dan F

you dont need hundreds of strategies you need 2-3 that work bruce lee said " i dont fear the man who knows 10000 techniques i fear the man who has practiced one technique 10000 times" Comment from : Dan F

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what's the difference between pride and ego Comment from : Lillian Graham

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her Comment from : Philip Nelson

Omg I love her 😂 Comment from : E Alma

This is one of the best ted talks Ive listened to Comment from : Invester med Nina

I’m wondering if you can help point me in the right direction I’m a former elementary school teacher who can no longer get a job doing that There are lots of different things I would like to do My latest idea is I would like to help parents to learn how to be more effective with their young children because I see that some of them are overwhelmed and, children being a smart as they are, know exactly what they can get away with I am also able to help people dealing with family members that have various learning disabilities and behavioral challenges Do you have any ideas on how I can get started with my own consulting or coaching business? Comment from : Lisa Bowden

I want this woman in my corner at all times…amazing talk! Comment from : Julie Krol

This person's english has problems Comment from : weareall1

It is justthe best tedx L have ever seen Comment from : Fellipe Rodrigues

Very informative and helpful thank you very much Comment from : Asrr Hossainzadeh

Thank you I needed this Comment from : Kitty Princess

Debra needs a husband who can be a father! And Instill discipline within the household! That's what she needs Comment from : Lee

Useless complete useless talk Comment from : Vijay kumar

everything is perfectly and plainly delivered, don't stress it Comment from : username4827

Thank you very much for the useful and fun talk! Comment from : Оксана Демченко

I did things in my past which I can't deal with now it was 20yrs ago Comment from : Della Swain

👍 Comment from : indran kistensamy

5:50YES!!! Comment from : L B

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💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 Comment from : Dr Seku Gathers

She has great legs And yes, I’m a girl and straight True story Comment from : AnnMarie

When I have trouble or sad story in real life, I tend to listen the Ted talk I find it sympathy to listen my mind Comment from : maihuong pham

I lost my job 2 years ago after about 14 years going into depth that I never went Now I'm tryi g to move on, GOD willing I can Thank you Dr🤲 Comment from : kelvin jansen

After a person turn me off I want nothing to do with them Comment from : Ameer Adair

I heard the talk 4 times back to back and its impressive Keep it up ! Comment from : Uzma Mahveen

Now you tell me Comment from : Dennis Macheda

👏👏👏 standing ovation !! Comment from : Rochelle Lobo

please some one explaine to me ,what is the hundreds or thousands of empirically backed strategies that she said in 7:14 minute Comment from : gift s

It is not even related to the problem itself, it is related to who stays stuck and who moves forward! People stuck in problem rather than move forward time to turn, learn, move Thank you Dr Nelson-Zlupko! Face life unafraid, we can make it! Comment from : Catherine

It takes bravery to turnbrShe implies it is pretty simple to turn brMost people I have met simply don’t have that bravery to turn “This is me and if I change my behaviour I change Me !” It becomes an identity challenge And most people don’t want to take the risk to become a better Me! Too much effort, too much risk, too much fear But I agree what she also states is that when you have overcome some Bumps you increase your ‘self-efficacy’ your level of confidence to slay your dragons And so future momentary crises appear more so as Bumps, not Dragons But most people regretably want the Wall to move and not themselves to move! Comment from : Spiro Raftopoulos

Also love to get paid for your useless advice Comment from : Tab TN

Thanks Tedx n DrLaniur Great Comment from : United Cell

She talked a lot but did not offer any real solutions Comment from : Manila Noakes

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Turn - Learn - Commit to move forward! Massive thanks! Comment from : Cris Bernardo

I would not go to see her if I had problems because she is doing the very thing that she claims cause people to stay stuck Comment from : Free Julian Assange

Encouragement is achieved, I am moving forward and i will always remember that there is always a way out Comment from : Shine

You are the Best! Comment from : Speakitright

Amazed by her talk Body language, tone of voice and structure of talk are all too good Wonderful! Comment from : Khongorzul Altangerel

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Thank you!!!! Comment from : S S

Best Ted Talk ever! Comment from : Susan Carlson

I needed it years ago, yet I'm glad Comment from : Tushar Mondal

The magnitude of the problem defines the magnitude of the work needed to overcome the magnitude of the problem…repeat Comment from : Wahfreak

Wonderful! Thank you! Comment from : Lorraine Marcketta

Wonderful! Thank you! Comment from : Lorraine Marcketta

I was stuck and accepted he hurt me many times… Now I get power to move on ! 💕brThank you so much🙏🏻❤️ Comment from : Angsumalin S

Thank you for your speech love from New Zealand 💚💚 Comment from : Sai Fuimaono

Talking about the same problem over and over again is very unhealthy Keeping those negative body chemicals firing nonstop is cancerous I think I know family members like this Comment from : Painless_YT

A body in motion tends to stay in motionbrIt's always easier to move once you are already movingbrIt doesn't matter if you think it's not exactly the direction you want to be moving or that you don't know what direction you want to be movingbrJust movebrIt's easier to change direction from there Comment from : Amy Phelps

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I just had all of the answers I needed, It’s painful a little but keep it learnable ! Comment from : Yum Taco

Hah yeah, i got stuck My mom was mad and kicked me out to my dad's at 16 (messy divorce) I lived alone in my dad's house for 7 months until he decided me and him were gonna move in with his gf Gf is unhappy with me (i was unhappy there anyway) and she wanted me out Moved in w my boyfriend and his parents for a few months (still unhappy)brDuring all this time i felt horrible because i was living with people who either didnt want me there, that i didnt want to live with or both But i couldnt just "get a place" It took me a over a year to find a house for myself Now at 18 I have my own tiny studio appartment and let me tell you, i finally felt like i moved on from it all Comment from : Connor Whateves

Talking about a problem for too long is not helpful But harmful Comment from : Joyce Lim

Ask problem focused questions Get problem focused answers Comment from : Joyce Lim

"I am not going to scream at theses kids today" lol good luck Comment from : DD

I would love for her to be my coach because I know I need itno matter all the positivity and affirmations and meditations a part of me feels STUCK Don't want to be stuck just want to have peace i watched this twice Will rewatch again and again Comment from : Diandrea Brown

You described my situation perfectly but I absolutely do not grasp turn and learn? I got the example of dude at work or mom with kids but no clue how to apply that to other situations Comment from : Justin

This talk is so good wow Comment from : Tasnuva Muhtasim

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Great talk V Helpful Comment from : Sumathy Balaji

Wish she’s my therapist Comment from : Cinney Lun

This was great and she’s smoking 🥵 Comment from : AndromedonThanks!

I am disappointed that she did not write a book about it and she does not produce content for her social media Comment from : naosouumrotulo

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Excellent talk with usable tools, ty Comment from : Disc Golf Illustrated

I needed exactly this For once YouTube has recommended the right video Comment from : CurlyTech

This is so powerful Comment from : Sangram Samantray

Such a smart and motivational woman, need someone like her in my life Very funny and practical I think she's better than most men at solving problems Comment from : Ace

Regarding the first story, people reproduce because mortality is overwhelming, but that just passes responsibility to a living mirror Comment from : David Krane

Some cancers are just more hard to treat Some never kill others almost always Comment from : Davide Serli

I like her! Comment from : Li Hong

Plz pray for me to get back to life Comment from : A

As a migrant, we keep moving fast for better opportunities and results The word stuck is not in our DNA! Comment from : F k C

Go Lani I'm so thrilled this came up in my feed! Great talk! from fellow '89er Comment from : Jessica Setbon

May I know the exact sentences she said between 9:50-10:20? Couldn’t really catch it Appreciate someone would shed some light Thank you Comment from : Jeffrey Chen

This solve my 90 problems Awesome Comment from : Tarannum Khatri

Don't get tangled up in the justice system Everyone makes mistakes I did when i was young And still paying for it now 2 kids Single mom Just got job, now lost it over trying to support my family Car They don't want us out of the system Especially lower class Comment from : Eden Sherrill

Superb 👌 Comment from : Sarang Nagbhidkar

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