Judgment on Mothers | Maara Fink | TEDxToledo

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Title	:	Judgment on Mothers \| Maara Fink \| TEDxToledo
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This was good Thank you! I need to listen to this at least once a week
Comment from : Fatima Dildy

Women harshly judging women is nothing new, and happens well before motherhood
Comment from : Im Sarcastic

Really enjoyed and appreciated words Thanks so much for sharing
Comment from : Maryam Ali

You just need to block them out Not everyone’s home/family runs the same 🤷🏻‍♀️
Comment from : C

Me encantaria que pudiera traer subtitulos para los que no sabemos ingles
Comment from : Lizette Uribe

I choose now to stay at home and care for my 2 year old son It took me 2 years to allowed myself to do it Because it's zo normal to work again after 3 months birth If you don't work, it's weird now I'm so gratefull, because after 51 hours in labour, me and my son almost died I see now, to enjoy more Either if you work or not Choose the family life what is best for your family❤
Comment from : Aggies Art

single mothers are a biblical plague - Jesus
Comment from : Robert Warner

I love this Having to work for our family to afford to live, i have learned since the quarantine it, that es, I can be a SAHM I have also learned that i never want to homeschool because my brain is just not wired to do that well
Comment from : Heather Contois

That's a subtle way to describe an accident
Comment from : dragonq8

None of that ever happened to me, or I just didn't notice or give it any energy because those judgments apparently meant nothing to me
Comment from : Gigi S

My ex mother in law judged me so harshly for what I ate while breastfeeding I remember crying because I was happily enjoying a very rare slice of pizza, and she said something behind my back to her younger son about how that's why my baby gets rashes When you're breastfeeding you're ravenous and the pizza tasted so good, and while I was still eating it, this insult was repeated to me This was a constant with my first child I'm sad for young, first time mom me 😁
Comment from : Hood Priestess Philosophy

Honestly, I just want to see parents trying The only thing that irks me is the parents who don't even try to correct their kid's undesirable behavior If your kid is having a raging meltdown that you're failing to control, but you're trying, that's all that can be asked of you
Comment from : E T

the things this women is worried about being judged about are genuine concerns that speaks volumes of her & her integrity as a [mother shes reaching
Comment from : Jonathan Lavis7

Hey not only the people judges you! You qre judged by your own mo about how you raise your children The ones that are supposed to love you and not judge you
Comment from : Elsa Herrera

2019 here, and thank you so much for this video I had the worst day today where my 3 year old had a tatrum at her school I live in italy and I just let her have the tantrum and slowly tried talking to my daughter In the meantime it was as if time stood still and everyone in the schoolyard especially the moms were judging me! some grandmothers were even angry with me for not stopping the tantrum I just have my own way of dealing with it, i let her calmd down and than we talk and just all these people judging me and being histeric towards me didnt help the situation at all i am at my all time low, my daughter is doing fine But tomorrow i have to bring her to school and i have this cripeling anxiety:(why do women do this to eachotherevery child has a tantrum , but due all the looks and advice of people i start question myselfeventough i know i am a good mother and there is noting wrong with my child!
Comment from : SuperDea1988

Literally some of her comments were judging stay at home moms
Comment from : Yur Jhr

Honestlyi think she took some things as insults that wernt I tend to be oversensitive too
Comment from : Yur Jhr

Currently dealing with the MIL, FIL, and on occasion my own mother's judgement
Comment from : Yur Jhr

Why does she care so much about what others think? Screw the judgements, live your life Pathetic
Comment from : B H R

An entire speech devoted to data collected how exactly?
Comment from : Still Waters Farm

The practice of nonjudgement is the most freeing practice I have ever experienced😊 brThe benefit of doubt is a free gift that we all wish to receive 💙
Comment from : J Jayne

Your hardest critics are you family members Great video!
Comment from : Marlenne Escano

Lol had kids bc her friends were Follow the crowd Fall into pressure Learn your body, your cycle Use careful measures to not bring someone you're not ready for
Comment from : Gracie Compton

seems like this lady really really cares about what others think LOOL
Comment from : puki glass

yeah and also all the people that judge you because you don't have kids and if you are not married that are constantly saying that having children is the best thing that ever happened to them, blabla so annoying, we get judged about technically everything
Comment from : puki glass

I loved this talk so much!
Comment from : Maggie Thurber

Listening to this made me realize how many judgments I have received and also judgments I have made, how marginalized all Mothers become and also a HUGE list of myriad ways my husband, as the Father, will never be judged
Comment from : Britta Visser Stumpp

With all honesty You won't know if you're emotionally ready for a baby until after, or even a few months after you have a kid I was 20 and already had a committed partner and I wanted a kid, 9 months later I was hit hard with postpartum depression and thought the whole thing was a completely bad decision and I it was a choice I made too soon and it was a very tearful 2 months from the moment I was alone in the hospital room with my newborn Three months she started smiling And those happy little expressions renewed my yearning to be a mom and the crying became more manageable I'd say I am lucky to have had such a tamely little toddler
Comment from : Marlie M

In our community it is pretty common for social services to be called on for the smallest thing
Comment from : Barbara Theobald

Thank you so much Good talk and so true I judge other moms and I get judged by my sister, in laws husband etc constantlyI always think I am doing an awful job and it does make me feel better when I think others r doing worse and so true abt motherhoid being a thankless job No one thanks you I am gonna try alot harder to be more supportive of other moms
Comment from : shafmay

I'm a public school teacher & have noticed that the kids who know they are loved & have a happy mom really thrive
Comment from : Kathy Anuenue

There are so many things parents get judged on! I will definitely think about ways I can be less judgmental toward how others raise their children Also, I'm glad to know that there are educated women like you speaking up for all kinds of mothers and parenting styles Thank you!
Comment from : Victoria Chamberlain Crookshank

The unpaid job we care about most And Yeah the free flowing judgement by your parents/your babie’s grandparents She nails the ridiculous US idea that we must be the best We can not all be the Best at everything
Comment from : Lisa Wood

Hi Mom
Comment from : Adam Hamilton

I loved it!!
Comment from : Kellie McGinnis

It seems u are very selfish All you discussed is how you were judged and how it made u feel What about your kids? You say when you asked your order kid what he would've changed about his childhood he wanted to spend more time with you Maybe u should've spent less time worrying about what others thought and more time thinking about your child and their needs Your judged by others Because my kids and yours quick live together in the future
Comment from : President of the Manosquare