Stop lending people money ( friends and family )

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I do not have money, just enough to have a decent life
Comment from : Robert Hall

Never ever tell or let family or friends know your net worth, act poor
Comment from : Prisca David

You can't even talk to family and friends about your financials If you do you just about see the wheels turning in their heads
Comment from : Rob ST

I have borrowed $3,000 my car was in desperate need of repair Me being a person of pride it took a lot to even ask I told them I would Pay them $350 a Month over the course of 10 monthsbrI paid in full and on time plus Took them out to Dinner I would never borrow what I know I can’t pay back
Comment from : Mike J Womack

that happened to me last 😊month, my cousin asked me for 80$ and I sent it to him but the next day when I called him he avoided answering the call and didn't talk to me for weeks when before he always called me everyday wanting to go somewhere smh lol
Comment from : Sierra Symone

Amazing advice👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Comment from : Faith Munyui

One thing I dislike about lending money, or anything, to a person is that person now knows you're "mandated" to help him/her soon after in order he/she pays you back Basically, that person has no intention to pay back and wants to squeeze you a little more out of anything - another loan, a ride, a big favor Once you get fed up or stop helping out, that person has an "excuse" for not paying you back just because you were a "jerk" or "I needed you in time of need"
Comment from : Barry the Burglar

Now when I hear borrow I assume under 300 bucks So idk how the hell we whent to going to court so fast XD
Comment from : lxwkey

Had a former friend I worked with ask to borrow $10 to buybr two $5 lottery scratch tickets, and he'd pay me back payday (in 10 days) I gave himbr the $10, and he won $500 on each ticket I drove him to cash the tickets in, and went back to his house br When he was getting out of my car, I mentioned the $10 he owed me He said that it was HIS money, and br he had said that he'd pay me back payday After I cussed him out, he gave me my $10 back, and he lost a good paying job because I was his ride to work (in another city) which I stopped doing
Comment from : B L

So I shouldn't watch this video because I'm lending you money in the form of hits? Got itI'll leave a thumbs down
Comment from : King Jae

Exactly so
Comment from : Ett juridiskt ombud för den enskilda

After a couple experiences of lending money, I stopped lending money to people and just give thembrbrHowever, the people I give money to are very, very few
Comment from : LetsWorkoutABit

Your relationship was already damaged but money made it obvious People who borrow money either they don’t have the money so they can’t pay back or they have but,have habit of borrowing and not giving back
Comment from : Amla Dubai

My daughter wrecked both of my cars and owes me 3000 when I ask for my money back she throws violent tantrums
Comment from : lisa jROCKS

There's a guy who couldn't or wouldn't even pay me back $45
Comment from : El Roco

You let someone borrow money once or twice, they'll always call you when they're in a bind SAY NO!
Comment from : El Roco

Dude i need to cut off with a friend and your situation is very similar to mine
Comment from : Orlando Furioso

Whenever anyone hints (they won't come out and ask) about money issues and yes, we all have them I tell them I don't have it Period I don't give money either I'm not a bank I don't understand why I'm the one everyone comes to with their hands out I never borrow from anyone either I just do without If I can't afford it, I don't buy it or borrow for it
Comment from : Donna Bennett

I have the lowest income of my siblings and somehow they always have money problems that I need to help them out with while going out to fancy dinners and being on jet ski's on vacation 🤨
Comment from : Maria Perez

I was stupid to tell my sister how much I have in my savings, a week later, she asked me to borrow her $2,000 I will never mentioned to anyone how much money I have ever again Lesson learned
Comment from : Webster Kollie

This is true, stop lending friends No friends I lent ever paid me back and that too means ending a friendship You'll just end up disappointed and sometimes it's so hard to shake off that heavy feeling If you can't say 'no' tell instead you just have enough budget for your day to day expenses If you think you can afford to lend just give enough money you can afford to lose in that way you treat it as a gift Don't ever feel guilty for saying no, they are not your responsibility This is what I've learned in the past 20+ yrs with friends who ask to borrow from me and learned that 99 won't pay you back anymore Trust me
Comment from : JONIE

Based on life lessons I learned, you'd rather see someone at their worst than to feel like you have to beg for what is yours People don't respect kindness, and will prey on you br#DieQuicklybr#No
Comment from : rgw1380rw

Your cousin didn’t pay you back because ( In his mind) you don’t need that money! He valued more the money than the relationship with you
Comment from : Edward Vargas Perez

Lent one of my friends 23k 7 years ago for his business love the guy but haven’t seen a cent he’s embarrassed clearly but just sucks with money worst mistake ive ever made
Comment from : alexguy96

Tommie, i understand what you're saying However, if you're making $30,000 per month - a one-time gift of money to someone in need would not be a bad thing There is nothing wrong with helping others financially, if you can afford to
Comment from : Essential One

I agreeI lost a 20+ year friendship over money Sad
Comment from : Shuana Davis

I learned this from experience, I lended money to my "best friend" and it has been a torture to try to collect my money back and I actually had to make him sign a contract to protect myself I would have prefer not to do that
Comment from : joseafalvel

Hes right but try having a gambling father 😈
Comment from : Gilbert Johnston

I don’t understand the mindset of people who take money without paying it back smhmy dad owes me $2500 But I feel funny hounding him for it It’s been about a year now I don't expect to get it back :(
Comment from : Daren McMillian

Take a shot every time he says “basically” 😆
Comment from : yoobin lee

Truth!
Comment from : KhalilaShani

Tommy can you please do a video on SPACS?? Maybe a bit of what they are, pros and cons to an investor I recently started looking but I would love an opinion on them in your words
Comment from : Abigail Morales

I lended a relative 1,400 and he only gave me 1,000 back It is better no to lend money to relatives nor friends
Comment from : Mr F

Golden advice Thanks Tommy
Comment from : Justin Voon

It's always a gamble when you loan ppl money The best thing to do is simply say no, those who know your heart will respect your answer and those who don't respect your answer don't respect you as a person
Comment from : Its KIA

I haven’t watched the video yet, so I’m going purely off the title I made a rule years ago to never lend anyone money I’ll help you, I’ll kick you some cash Whether you choose to pay me back or not is a reflection of your character But I don’t lend money I help people
Comment from : Zulu Gaming

Tommy is the realest
Comment from : bigcitymillionaire

This came right on time because just the other day I was searching for videos on this topic This has been my problem in 2020 I'm so glad you touched on this Thank you!
Comment from : MrsHenderson

Happy new year
Comment from : Winchest3r

i have fam in mexico i have had to stay away from, they think that dollars grow on trees here in the us!!😒😒
Comment from : Javier

I have my 5740$ that I borrowed two of my friend since 14months without the assurance I will be repaid back soon or ever Not a good experience for me
Comment from : Agbolade Opeyemi

Bro said we gonna start this year off right! 😂
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Comment from : Identity Dreads

Hes probably watching 👀 ,
Comment from : Chris Dubosse

Happy new year everyone 🙌🎊🎊🎊
Comment from : Jade Trading

New Year Eve Drinking Game Every time Tommy says “basically,” you take a shotbrbrThanks for the great content
Comment from : Elmar Gudiel

I still remember my brother not paying me back for a ticket he received This was 35 years ago
Comment from : Wanda White

Love how you are like since you won't listen to me Here's how you actually loan out money brReasons if I am doing anything with people I know I'm just gonna give them the money or just say no
Comment from : KelechIwuaba

Dude ! You got to 300k ! Congrats👏👏👏👏 !
Comment from : Jose Camacho

I was in this situation and I knew I had to lend only as much money as I would be willing to simply give this person, and I had to be willing to accept that I may never ever see that money again and be 100 okay with that and not have that impact my relationship with that person It's a tricky thing, mixing business/money and family
Comment from : Brooklyn Butcher Blocks

Great video! Happy New Year! 🎊
Comment from : S

Need to show this video to my mom or Dad
Comment from : kenny kaijage

In reality I always say no and basically if they really need the money bad, they can go take out a loan from I don’t care at a high Interest rate And lastly that solves everything
Comment from : Franky Rangel

Did you get a new camera? Video looking smooth
Comment from : Poku Banks

Solid advice! Bro, invest instead hahah 👊🏼 Happy new year man
Comment from : Trading With CJ

Don’t lend but if forced, small amounts Consider it a penalty you paid when they don’t repay it but now you never have to loan money again Of course they will now avoid you If larger amounts get two hundred percent collateral from them You both should have risk, not just you
Comment from : microtrader

so tommy what are "you" doing to build you family and family structure/community? im asking because yea i part dont agree with this video when i borrow money from family i do my damnest to pay the back (with interest), also im grateful they havent put a time limit or set dates on the loans i think better family financial structures need to be developed especially people "trying" to be capitolist
Comment from : robert christian

From the title I can tell that tommy had that uncle that always asked for a dollar 😂
Comment from : KingFratetrainBeats

this video is speaking nothing but the truth I've learned from personal experience with this luckily I'm an asshole so I ain't got no problem telling people to go screw off but I do try to help when I can
Comment from : Christopher Wright

I loan my brother $185, he ask after my wife pass It been about 8 yrs he still haven't pay me Now he can't never borrow anything from me rest of his life!
Comment from : Freddie Butler

I just lost one of my close friends for 20+ years this month over money brLesson learned Don’t lend money and don’t do business with family or friends
Comment from : Panda _J1

Hey Tommy do you recommend a Roth IRA account and a separate Investment account with M1 Finance?
Comment from : Jamarius Paige

I’m living in with my aunts for Christmas It was 50$ each They believe that giving gifts is a show of appreciation and love I want to listen to your advice but I also don’t want to be kicked out 😭😭 what should I do? brEdit: I just that you meant stop lending to people in general ( in a casual manner) only do it around birthdays and holidays?
Comment from : Liin Liin

You post good stuff bro !!!!brNever a dULL Video destroy That Like BuTTON💥💥
Comment from : DREDSOSA

Great advice man, thanks for all the wisdom you share
Comment from : Misael Moreno

It's bad to lend people moneybrBanks can handle it
Comment from : Justin Miller

I noticed you made your 300k goal congrats!!!
Comment from : Destiny 300

I've lend money to a relative and didn't get my money back I sued and won my case and now he got a lien on his house the next step is garnishing his check weekly I'm just waiting for this pandemic to slowdown but never again
Comment from : Steve L

An Ex Girlfriend actually 2 it didn't work out That's why they are Ex's 🤣🤣🤣🤣But the real deal is I had it to lend But they never can get it again 😉
Comment from : Kenneth McDougal

All you have is your name and Balls😄😄
Comment from : Kenneth McDougal

Need lovely 😍💋 💝💖❤️
Comment from : Nyasia Dominique

My brother has owed me $250 for the last 5 years, my best friend owes me $700 for the last year brI wish I did it different
Comment from : Kemaine Clay

What about children
Comment from : Kenneth McDougal

Time to memorize this!
Comment from : Justin Miller

Great video I learnt my lessons from the past and have made the decision never to lend money to family or friends, even with a contract If the amount is small and I can afford them I will just give it to them, but let them clearly know that there will not be a second time So far none of those I have given to has come back for a "refill" :-)
Comment from : Peel Commerce

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Comment from : Cynnoshah

I don't lend money anymore
Comment from : Graham Cracker Jay

OMG 😍💋 💝💖❤️
Comment from : Sullivan Ezequiel

People act weird, when you ask for your money back Like there offended that you didn't give it to them 😆
Comment from : Graham Cracker Jay

Would you be interested in doing a contract a agreement?😃
Comment from : Car Provider

I can't remember a time where I borrowed money from a family member but I know I have lent money to family member and generally speaking I don't believe in doing it ever
Comment from : Jeroñe