How Do I Stop Lending Money To My Family?

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Title	:	How Do I Stop Lending Money To My Family?
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Recently told my two brothers that I can no longer loan them money One decided to cut me off cause he has no more use for me The other understood
Comment from : cookies andpie

I only loan as much as I would give So if they don't pay it back, it was always a gift anyway
Comment from : Stephen Gamber

I am a Bangladeshi citizen, I live in UAE, my family lives in Bangladesh, I have no parents, we have 8 people in our family, 3 are sick, our condition is very bad, I am also sick, so I want help
Comment from : Rasel *****

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Comment from : Jeffrey Richardson

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Comment from : Jeffrey Richardson

If a person has proved to pay you back Give them the benefit of the doubts
Comment from : Johnny Jackson

When people who owe you money are spending money in unnecessary things, it’s time to ask for your money back If they aren’t good with money, don’t lend them in the first place:
Comment from : Mr Crowley

I was a dialysis technician for years, and we had patients who had jobs They couldn't work every job but they could work some jobs, and medical counseling can help people find them
Comment from : Rini Stephenson

Get comfortable with saying no It will save you lots of headaches Keeping your finances between you, yourself, and you
Comment from : Esonon

This is a excellent question they never pay you back I consider it lost money if you lend your family money
Comment from : Yanille Castillo

When it comes to family, it’s best to live by the phrase, give a man a fish 🐠 he will eat for a day but teach a man to fish 🎣 and he will eat for a lifetime!
Comment from : Joshua Morales

Leave the past in the past, too late to fix that! They are adults, and they both need to get themselves to work, I agree with what John said!
Comment from : Betty Smith

My mom does this all of the time She an enabler with two adults in our family They are 48 and 32
Comment from : James K

If you wanna get rid of people in Your LifeLOAN THEM MONEY 💰 💰 💰 💰 💰
Comment from : Phillip Neufeld

35th comment
Comment from : Jill Roberts

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Comment from : Luke Harris

Looks like he's sending money over to his country people think when you come to the United States you automatically get rich so people that don't come here and work,and pay bills they don't understand
Comment from : gino turano

Yes a spiritual advice
Comment from : Nessa

I got divorced brI called my rich brother to ask him for br$2000 to help me get an aprt brHe said nobrAs I hung up the phone brI told myself brNow either u sink or swim brNow 30yrs later I’m doing great
Comment from : Him Bike

Wow Dave is so right about how we end up being doormats so many times when we try to be nice and help others financially That is SO true! (As I've found out myself)
Comment from : Sheryl777

I get so tired that people think that they have a right to what you have earned
Comment from : Mike Wright

John and Dave are on FIRE with this one!
Comment from : Nema

If you are in a good place to help do it,especially if they are ill
Comment from : Jamaican in the Kitchen

For some reason, I don't think this is what his parents were talking about
Comment from : Ilovecats

Totally don’t agree with you guys,, maybe it’s cultural differences BUT id donate my own kidney to my brother, id take a bullet saving my siblings and family… not only contributing money to have them back on their feet and never ask something in return and definitely will never ask for my money back My family’s wellbeing is something I can’t negotiate ,,, what is the point if im in a good shape financially and my family struggles
Comment from : Kstreets

I've been dealing with this for 30 years and I'm tried of being an overdraft facility How do i deal of my brother is not lazy, just not able to make ends meet?
Comment from : ChipZilla69

Helping people isn't always about money brIt could be encouraging people to live a healthy lifestyle, Educating them about finance, emotional support or doing the lawns for an elderly neighborbrYou can't help fill a bucket if it has a big hole in it brThese people probably aren't wanting any true help
Comment from : Lynda Price

There's a Cinema Therapy video about Megamind that talks about "Nice guy syndrome" and how "nice and good are two different things"
Comment from : Jordan Holleman

I don’t think it’s true that enablers use others to make themselves feel good I think more often they are terrified of saying no or it just doesn’t feel like a possibility to say no
Comment from : Katie G

I am no longer an enabler Of course I am the sorriest low life to walk on this earth now , according to them , but I’m ok with that
Comment from : Fed up patriot

My uncle simplified this for me years ago You can't help somebody who's contributing zero! Zero times any number is still zero
Comment from : Brian Nesbitt

My family always paid me back Glad I was never in this situation
Comment from : Chele1985

Just say no If they hate you for it, they are not worth having anyway
Comment from : Warren Trout

Why is John Delony asking Dave if he can answer?
Comment from : JYthePE

There is a phrase in Spanish that says, “to one who lacks shame, you respond without shame”
Comment from : Orwell was right

One word: no
Comment from : cato

I lent my aunt $5000 in 2011 brbrI got it back in 2020
Comment from : PASSPORT BROS BUSINESS CLASS

JUST SAY NO
Comment from : PASSPORT BROS BUSINESS CLASS

Nice to know that Dave is still making mistakes and owning them
Comment from : Isaiah Merriam

If you have kidney failure, I'm pretty sure you can get ssdi
Comment from : Jimmy McGill

Just say NO
Comment from : Jimmy McGill

If someone has kidney failure, how can they get off their lazy butts and work like Dave suggests I'm confused
Comment from : RAH

They have learned to depend on you Help them in other ways
Comment from : Alex V

My sister stopped lending me by moving away, so I helped myself by working more, now I'm in a very good place
Comment from : anya8221

This is the problem with homelessness…
Comment from : Georgie Smith

Someone stopped me from doing this He explained if I kept doing this, they would never try to help themselves And I was contributing to harm them instead of helping It was hard but I stopped
Comment from : DorisdePinar

Well, just stop giving it 😂
Comment from : Hans J23

My mom had kidney failure and couldn’t work for over 20 years physically because its a permanent disability I say forgive the debt and don’t lend any more money
Comment from : Queen Kristal