Title | : | The Difference Between Choosing Black u0026 Choosing Better |
Lasting | : | 26.35 |
Date of publication | : | |
Views | : | 41 rb |
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Omg the guy on the right uplifting his queen is incredible This is a man women should strive to pursue Loved the fact that he happily answered the questions and wasn’t afraid to go up and beyond to praise his partner Without hesitation or stuttering Comment from : mabel9701 |
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As a black man you speaking facts Comment from : Ludens |
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Also when he changed his tone & made that comment "That term doesn't mean sh--- to me!"that was him getting aggressive, threatening & in a violent bandit's waytelling her that what she thinks/wants doesn't mean sh--- & that he'll physically hurt her She's kind of afraid of him, she has a problem & he won't leave her easily without giving her problems Comment from : LahLah Emerald Devoe |
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That White man had bno issue/b dropping whatever amount of money for the woman he really wants to be with and share his life withbrbrThat Black man flipped the script the moment the interviewer put everyone on the spot He wasn't ever going to marry her He's a bum She was a plugged-in placeholder, living with him bafter being in a/b 3-year relationship Comment from : Nailah Dawkins |
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Dude in the green is a cornball Comment from : elsh26 |
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2 she's staying Comment from : Kay Dee |
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This is an American problem…I come from the Middle East where the concept of living with a man before marriage is non-existent …a girl is raised knowing damn well she ain’t opening her legs to a Man till he can afford to spoil and marry her…women NEVER give men money and are expected to be provided for…no matter what she looks like, she can find a husbandyou women , especially BW are absolutely beautiful, and yet you have no standards for your men to meet before giving them access to your body Comment from : Scarlet Lady |
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At some point, we've got to stop blaming the dusties Dusties will always be out in the world It's the women who lack self-respect and crave validation from these types of men That woman in the video was embarrassed and trying to laigh it off She's beautiful It seems like she's at least intelligent enough, but it's her conditioning that’s the problem She could do better, and I genuinely hope she does Comment from : Crystalee Fyffe |
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Its crazy the black woman looks waaay better than the white lady Yet she getting nada And the other the 35k Comment from : Queen of Divination World |
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This is where black women get caught up Why are you living with him and doing "wifey" shish if you are not married? Don't fall for any of that "But I really love you" and "We practically married already" and whatever If a man isn't up to your standard AND isn't talking about marriage when you're hitting a year, leave him be I don't know how you're with men 3+ years and not even a proposal has happenedbrI had a white guy try to play that card with me (I always assume when a guy from another race is trying to get the same ride or die crap from black women, it's because he's been listening to too many black guys) He lived with his ex and she eventually left because he wasn't moving the relationship forward (this guy didn't tell me this, but I figured it out from what he was telling me about their break up), which is understandable when they'd been together for 4 years When we were talking about relationships leading up to marriage and expectations, I said I'm not moving in with someone unless we were engaged He seemed to be weird about that and tried to shame me by saying I couldn't have been in a "real" relationship if I had not lived with a man before I told him straight up that if I lived with a man, it would mean I'd be doing "partner" type stuff with them when they have NOT claimed me as a partner in that fashion, and that's a standard I hold, and don't plan on budging from Long story short, he lost interest quickly You weren't about to try to do something I haven't even let a black guy talk me into, LOL If I won't take it from someone in my community, why do you think i'd take it from someone outside of it? I guess because he thought his whiteness would make up for it, but I'm not a self hating black woman brSo, I will tell black women, when you date out, be careful of nonblack men who have observed our relationship dynamics and THINK they can treat us how black men treat us and come to us with nothing The reject men from other communities try to get black women, sometimes, because they want to lay up and suck us dry like they see black men do Don't fall for it just because the dustiness is wrapped up in a different package Comment from : BooDotBoo |
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I will never touch a kang, kangs come in all colors but most kangs are black Black men create the most broken homes, why give birth to them? why allow them to screw you over?brbrWhen I look at black men I rather see my money as my husband because unlike a kang money gives me more Comment from : Emma Frost |
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If you actually watch this guy's videos, every woman of all colors is asking a man to make 300K Cynthia is provides a false narative Comment from : dan fouts |
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This ANALYSIS was soo ON POINT!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Comment from : Grace Tshituka |
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Take care of you cyn💖 Comment from : Mady Lines |
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Ill never understand how women get into relationships with men and have no idea of that man's view of relationships and marriage How are you just now finding out marriage means nothing to your boyfriend in a 3yr relationship????🤔 Fantasizing about marriage while in a relationship with a man who doesn't want to be a husband is wilddd lol Comment from : itsnotme itsyou |
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She's went him?! Oh okay! She looks too darn good to be with him! Comment from : Cami BluTube |
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All I can say is this is a damn shame As a black woman I'm so embarrassed Comment from : Nialcc |
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Just sad to see a beautiful woman who has ZERO self value and giggling while this MALE speaks with ZERO intelligence and presents as a certified bandit Comment from : WHO? |
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I literally could not imagine dating a man who could afford a ring like that I don’t even know where to find a man like that, much less get him to be interested in me 😂😂 Comment from : Anne Marie M |
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CYN, you said a MOUTHFUL Everything you said is true Thank you for being brave enough to speak the truth Comment from : Ms Nobody |
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I think it’s so sad what black women settle for, beautiful beautiful women settling for horrible men Comment from : Millsy Kooksy |
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We were forced to accept Nothing We were forced to believe that support of a man is required out of us and that we are to expect abuse and nothing in return in exchange for our self-sacrifice and suffering brbrIm so through with men Comment from : GuidedByMyIntuition |
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The bw have no standards 🤦🏽♀️ Comment from : DeeDeeKarol |
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This is embarrassing, pooks gone pook 🤦🏽♀️🎪🤡 Comment from : DeeDeeKarol |
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Yup I agree I was like this too I didn’t know anything about standards or boundaries my mother never taught me because she wasn’t taught Teach ya girls Comment from : A NEW LIFE🌻 |
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23:28 PLSSSSS 😭😭 Comment from : Milk Homie |
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I’m embarrassed for her… so sad so many of us still don’t know any better… very very sad Comment from : Danni |
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Yes - it's all about his character! 🙌 Comment from : Goethe2andFro |
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Just look at the maturity levelbrNothing but excuses and sporadic standards, used to not have to answerbrbrThat's what I don't like most about Black men, the child-like mind Comment from : Jacy Dyer |
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She's going to stay because she has a spiritual soul tie Comment from : diamond life |
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She was caught off guard because she was comfortable with the situation until it was pointed out… She’s not going anywhere but will probably hound him for marriage for years to come Comment from : Gina M |
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S/O to Cyn 💯💯💯 Comment from : Landon Turner |
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Hope she doesn't cheat on him Comment from : No Bullshiit |
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If yall don't lose the capes for those brokies Yall will stay poor and raising kids in poverty 😬 Comment from : No Bullshiit |
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Look at the demeanour of that dusty Slow in the brain Comment from : BeepBop Boop |
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And the black woman is gorgeous Make it make sense Comment from : Michelle T |
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He will leave her!! I already know Comment from : Cherry Lu |
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I think slavery did a number on the African American woman In Africa, African Descent women look at money 💰 FIRST, just like other high value women around the world Wake up Black women in America 🇺🇸 WAKE UP! 😮 Comment from : Ta Muz |
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All mammal who give birth can be female Only humans who can give birth can be a woman Comment from : Charlana Simmons |
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He is TRASH he told her she should be happy with a $1500 because no one has ever proposed to herthey stay showing their true dusty nature Comment from : Aries LaZuri Uhuru |
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He’s the epitome of delusional blk mens mindset Blk women will bash other blk women when this bandit is their son that they tell no one is good enough for them Comment from : Co Co |
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How is that woman even with that man? Comment from : Wilson Breige |
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I hope she sees this video! Cause she was on a post defending this loser coming At everybody who was telling her she can do better! I had to ask her why was she mad at us when we’re on her side She didn’t respond Just sad af smh Comment from : TysVideoDiaries |
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🙄😒 Black women refuse to stop shacking up Comment from : BIGGIE SHORTY |
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Cynthia is right! Travis Kelce’s ex girlfriend Kayla Nicole would accept the bare minimum from that bandit No protection no financial no security and she was with that bandit for almost 5 years Now he’s chasing after Taylor Swift, do anyone think he’s going to treat his white girlfriend like he did Kayla?? Absolutely not! He’s going to pay for everything and provide it all And she has all the money in the world BW really need to do better and be better!! Comment from : Goodly Blessed |
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Don't cohabitate with bandits yall Comment from : luvcats |
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Black people, specifically black men, are constantly humiliating us as a race Smh I feel bad for the woman in the 2nd video Comment from : Lana |
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For y’all that think it’s only “African American men” this is a Nigerian man!! Comment from : Wande |
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Yo, this was so horrible I couldn’t even sit through the black couples commentary for a second time When I first saw it on Instagram, I was completely floored/astonished Absolutely NOT!! I am so tired of seeing this deplorable behavior!! It’s just the second hand embarrassment for me!! At this point every time I see situations like this or even similar I just cringe!! Comment from : MissBambamouch |
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Part two of this TikTok was even worse He told her she was too picky about the price of a ring Comment from : Akeria |
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I think after the backlash Itll constantly be in the back of her mind Comment from : sooprettydreaa |
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Egyptians are arab Theyre middle estern by "ethnicity" WHITE EUROPEANS have DIFFERENT DNA codes to arabs Smh Whites are far more stronger and less deformed than them Comment from : Liver Pools |
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‘Stop paying attention to Skin Tone and Start paying attention to Character!’ 👏🏾👏🏾 A Word Comment from : Colorz |
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Women definitely have been brainwashed to accept anything and everything Ladies you are the prize Comment from : Alethia Boca |
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Amy Winehouse said this in her song, and The video,"STRONGER THAN ME!" When I saw this video, it made me remember Song louder 😭 She said, "You should be STRONGER than me, you been here Seven years longer than Why you always put me in Control, I always have to ask my man to live up to His Role He always want yo yalk it through 😢, I don't care I always have to comfort you everyday😂 These wining BM pitiful She basically was saying The roles are reversed and she tired of that😂 Comment from : LaDyZiNaDa |
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The non melanated man is this video isn’t physically fit to “handle” a melanated physically fit female Not only is multifaceted paradigms that stems from the destruction of the melanated family unit; simultaneously, a physically fit melanated female isn’t going to reproduce an offspring that is ninety to ninety nine percent melanin; therefore, in BIOLOGICAL TERMINOLOGY, the melanin chemical is dominant in people & the people who do not have the chemical of melanin in their bodies is/are subordinate Comment from : The Plug XXX |
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The irony is the Egyptian woman asking the bw if money is important is married to a muti millionaire bm While bw are accepting crumbs Damn shame Comment from : me-me Adams |
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It’s not every black woman though 🙄 Comment from : Sophie |
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7:00 ni🅱️🅱️a sounds bREMEDIAL/bbrbr“It’s comin, it’s comin” 🥴 Comment from : Mothinajamjar |
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Yo ,he saw a dude cracking his money and talk like a simp so he wanted to found out , what’s the problem ? y’all love simp so much let the dude expose some reality and save some man life …black woman don’t care about money ? 😂 why are y’all trying so hard to hide the truth This is hilarious 😂 for y’all standard mean : I wanna be a ultra rich 304 princess with a billionaire hubby who let you go out with chads on the weekend + overinflated ego I don’t hate y’all black woman , it just sucks 😅… y’all are beautiful it’s cool like others woman ,I mean your body is designed for us …but if we can’t make it our own , it’s just a interesting toy or not Most man play because they know they can’t trust y’all Got this thick I’ve offered her some vacation for 5days in my villa, 1 days in she call me for some * trouble with the air conditioning 😂* she lives tomorrow, and have standard , raw standard 😅 just like the others ones … pathetic Comment from : Sekaï o miru hito Kami no yume |
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Black women forever want men to do something for them and they do nothing for them that's never going to work Comment from : The King |
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💯💯💯💯 Comment from : A B |
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2 Comment from : Melaniece Bardley McKnight |
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This is the best comparison video I’ve ever seen Comment from : Melaniece Bardley McKnight |
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Wow Great point on the term “female” Comment from : Tjoyce |
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Money is very important ik blk and I was raised that way men provide Comment from : Keepingitcutewithmymy |
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He said— it depends on how much you make This man has money, so he’s not tripping He also didn’t like that weird ass question to ask a woman, so he redirected the interviewers energybrbrThe black man just joined in attacking his partner right along with the interviewer brbrWhites man’s wife didn’t need to do anything but rest in her femininity Comment from : Khristina Perry |
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That's easy You simply think black isn't better Comment from : Odie Dancer |
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That BM gave me the hibby gibbies and when he started to speak i got the ick🫣🤢 Comment from : The COOL Introvert TV |
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The black guy in the second clip just sounds like he's so dumb and ignorant I'm talking about the "she a female" comment and the fact he can't seem to articulate his words Those 2 things alone would be a huge turn off for me Can you imagine going to a nice restaurant with a guy like that and he orders and you have to listen him talking like this? Ew And the black woman he's with doesn't sound like that, she's also too beautiful to be with a loser like that Comment from : daughterofyemoja |
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Well I thought marriage don't matter anyway so Comment from : Destiny Maxie |
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That black woman was embarrassing ugh I’m over black women like this I really am Comment from : Blackmenhateblackwomen1950 |
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This is so embarrassing for black women… I hate it here Comment from : boobabyboo2 |
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And the black women are always light years better looking with so much going for themselves For some sistas unfortunately all he needs to be is a black wit a d-ck and they're happy Non-black women don't play that Comment from : Winter Walker |
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I can't believe that dusty man Comment from : E C |
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Such a vast difference! Brad owned the interview and praised his wife, while Tyrone embarrassed that girlshes gorgeous but dont know her worth he looks likeca illiterate bum 2, she staying with the struggle love Comment from : NiaGrace Caisley |
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You right about this Comment from : CharacterChange |
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I wish that WM and his partner all the blessings in the world His answer was solid! Comment from : NEA |
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HE HUMBLED THE WOMAN HE SHARES HIS LIFE WITH HUMBLED HER IN FRONT OF THIS RANDOMbrI am blew Comment from : T |
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Why can't you get a ring?brCause he can't afford it! That's it That's all Comment from : T Sinclair |
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Wow Typically bum ass behavior I just cannot Comment from : mary fields |
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Like she says if you're not married, you're single Which means she needs to move out and date whomever she chooses until she's married 👀 It's time to put us first How you treat yourself is showing others how to treat you Comment from : DesignbyTress |
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bPop Quiz: Which woman do you think slept peacefully that evening, feeling stress- and embarrassment-free, resting fully in her feminity and feeling protected by the man she was laying next too?/bbrbrbCorrect, the ninja-free one!/b Comment from : Dolly Scott-Payne |
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I hope that Black men see the comparison between themselves and their White male counterpartsit's really sad sad sad The Black woman is definitely dating DOWNNNNNNNNNNNN This is why Black men stay pinned up on the side of the Police Carbecause no one in society respects them as a whole But they will defend to the end that everyone is wrong and they are right Comment from : Stacy J Politics, Community & Faith K’onVersations |
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Hold fast to your standards Comment from : Queen Leigha |
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Cynthia never miss 💯 ❤ Comment from : Shandira Price |
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I say do not live with a boyfriend if you want to be a wife Comment from : Tiffany Rose |
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Just look at his posture 😫🤢 Comment from : Andrea O |
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2 Comment from : Xcstasy100 |
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7:51 boy the dust flying in this conversation lol lord knows she dating well below the bar Comment from : Sharron Denice |
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Cyn can you please 🙏🏾 do more videos like this? Where you’re juxtaposing black women’s dating choices against other women’s dating and marriage choices This is the way Excellent content!!! Comment from : Khaleesi Y |
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2 Sadly I hope I’m wrong 😞 Comment from : Dallas & Laura Flynn |
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Jeezy filed for divorce y’all Cyn will never run out of content 🫢 Comment from : TOFFEE TASTICC |
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