My Mom Is Guilting Me For Not Giving Her Money

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Title	:	My Mom Is Guilting Me For Not Giving Her Money
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Comment from : The Ramsey Show Highlights

Well, I kinda felt he was bragging about his good financial situation with his long introduction of his success story Why not just say his issue with his family at once? Cut to the chase And yes, congratulation for getting 25k a month Now, I know And no, I am not jealous since as a frugal person, I am glad I don't have debt and am fine with my financial situation at this moment
Comment from : WHATEVER GOES FOR ME

Dont brag about how much you make
Comment from : Marshapelo

Say no, it’s ok to say no
Comment from : Thomas D Cat

I would personally help once or twice, but a third time, I would be reaching out & asking the question, “hey, are you ok? Because this is the third time you’ve asked, I wouldn’t be doing my job in caring about you if I just handed over more money & didn’t take an interest in what was going on , please let me help you get back on track” brbut I wouldn’t be giving anymore money
Comment from : Leanne Jayne

"Boundaries" is an awesome book, and very helpfulbrIf my mother was a recovering addict, I would be very, VERY wary of handing them cash A bag of groceries, maybe pay one month's utility bill (in cash or with a money order in the mail) I definitely would not pay to move them closer to my home That guilting conversation would be over before it had a chance to get started Phones have a big red hang up button or a cradle for the handset with good reason
Comment from : M 3

He was better asking this on Reddit
Comment from : Jen1112111

Dude needs to grow a pair & put his foot down with his family
Comment from : Cute Guy

Don't give her money to move closer to you!
Comment from : George Wagner

Mine does this and I say not she won’t talk to me 😢
Comment from : Ava

When you have family like that you don't feel good when you succeed Because they make you feel like you are supposed to suffer with them
Comment from : small small

Excellent advice
Comment from : CuriousCat

Dude: I've got good boundariesbrbrNarrator: The dude in fact did not have good boundaries
Comment from : Sarah B

did you hear him say how his mom "burned the first house" he put her in to the ground? he's reluctant to get to the point because it's his mother Come on y'all!!!
Comment from : Erik Hopkins

All ways Take Care of your mother no matter what !!! She gave you life the greatest gift plus she's your mother
Comment from : 216 All Day

I have but one word: POWERFUL
Comment from : Derf Furwood

I disagree 100,sons and daughter have the moral obligation to help mom if she's not wasting money!
Comment from : Jose R Suarez

There's so many parents that have kids in order for them to look after them when their older Such a sad mindset that is She should be proud he's doing well and if she didn't ask I'm sure he would treat her now and again
Comment from : Magicdaisies

Nothing like a good heartwarming story of a close family
Comment from : Joe Dush of 64 Street

25k a month?? Can I do what he does!!? 😂
Comment from : Cadence Glass

I hate Klingons
Comment from : idaslpdhr

I am in the same position as this man Though my mom isnt single My dad is the only one that works And my mom who is very healthy refuses to work So It puts me in the position of being responsible for their emergency finance She is very focused on "sending money" philippines or fixing our house in the philippines over focusing on her life here and if there's any emergency here in america, She comes to me for help It is very frustrating but I also feel guilty not helping There is this "TOXIC FILIPINO Culture" of kids are supposed to take care of their parents financially and physically, almost like we are their retirement plan and IF we dont help, we are seen as "bad kids" or disrepectful to elders It is very sad but its true and still struggling about it
Comment from : JC

Once you reach $100k a year Don't tell your family
Comment from : Mike Avila

That's sad You can't live your life with other people dragging you backward
Comment from : le grande chene

I’m less than two minutes in and this caller needs to get to the frickn point, just sounds like he’s tryin to flex Whatta fool
Comment from : Gonegolfn

Inocent
Comment from : Amandeep Singh

Mai taan pahuchna c bt
Comment from : Amandeep Singh

As usual, she wants a son husband Single woman always do this She hasn’t prepared for retirement and now wants him to pay Don’t do it
Comment from : Carguy

He’s very long winded until he gets to his point
Comment from : Amy Doran

I'm not in the financial situation this guy is in and in fact am living on SS I have some savings My sister wasted her money when she had it but she didn't make a lot so her SS check is about half of what mine is and she can't afford to live without help I'm helping her without feeling that she is a burden She couldn't live without the extra help She would work if she could but a physical condition prevents it so I help Why can't some of these others do the same for their family members
Comment from : Elizabeth Ashton

Facts I will never give my mum money just so she can go gamble and we all starve
Comment from : Dr phil

Man, I hope this guy isn’t in meetings Get to the point already
Comment from : Shane Jared Berezowski

5:08 5:24 I agree
Comment from : Bizzy Yao

Man, just saw NO!!!
Comment from : mary garrett

Watching this cause a family member just tried to guilt trip me!
Comment from : K

4:08 your welcome
Comment from : winter

No!… that is all
Comment from : April Green

I was worried how I was going to take care of my parents if something happened to them My parents wasted time and did nothing but maintain me growing up I have to play deal with lots of life set backs because they did nothing to get me ready for life Is was worried if they got sick or something happened can I take care of them I’m going to have to just let their brothers and sisters take care of the, and let all of them feel the frustration of wasting time and not investing in the children they raised I realized I have to do this so I can invest in my children and In myself Sad but I got to
Comment from : Hi My name is 144

Sound like another sin husband Mother didn’t keep a man now turned her son into a son husband
Comment from : Hi My name is 144

Man you make 25000 a month and can’t help your mom out? Kinda grimey my boy
Comment from : Keith

My mother is a real estate investor and made so much money but she pretend to be broke just so I can just give her money I have no idea why she plays these games with me now than ever despite she has $2million in her bank account from her career Vs me having $110k in my checking and savings I feel like all she cares about is my money It's so wierd and heartless I feel so worthless
Comment from : Aryeh Yohan

"We rich"br"No, I'm rich"
Comment from : Pedro Guerra

Dave knows how to cut through the bs I wish this man was my father!
Comment from : Sharon Amadi

She’s trying to get under his skin to control him $$ by moving next to him
Comment from : Gillian C

💯
Comment from : Brian Hardcore

Spit it out lol
Comment from : Simplybeef

This is genuinely one of my favorite episodes yet, as we have a good man who makes good money and is good with finances, yet morally/ethically has a difficult situation going on and he doesn’t wanna do wrong It almost seems like a battle with good and evil in which he wants to choose good and avoid the sin but doesn’t know what or maybe how or maybe support behind it with validation and a some conversation Really good episode I fully enjoyed
Comment from : Daniel Maluenda

Why one has to tell family, others, how much they make? To me that is a secret only between husband and wife
Comment from : Richrico Granada

That is the best way to think about a situation where a relative is trying to guilt you to give them money so they can continue to make bad choices By giving in and handing them money you are paying them to continue their bad choices
Comment from : Derrick Bias

$25000 a month? thats what normal people make a year
Comment from : Arslan Khan

I could really use a “small amount” from somebody rn
Comment from : Spicer C

I thought this issue is only in the Philippines
Comment from : Edgar Tolete

Wouldn’t it just be kinder / easier to just give mom a monthly allowance ?
Comment from : Kelly Probst

I disagree with you I go e to homeless on the street What I give probably won't get them a house but will help them that day I am on this earth not to judge I give because my heart says to I am not in a position to give a lot I have my own life that hasn't been that focused like you I have made many money mistakes But it is through sharing what I have when it's hard to share is when you see the hand of Godno judgements, I hear you I really like your shows Give with a giving heartalways
Comment from : Elda Pucci

I disagree with some small financial pieces but this encapsulates why I love what you do Dave Great advice, great resources
Comment from : Side Winder

Ta ta ta ta today junior !!!
Comment from : Jacob Roberts

I use to have girlfriends that always asked me for money That's what this reminds me of sort of
Comment from : PJ Greene

Dave said PERIODT
Comment from : Sam G

This man need to learn the art of getting to the point! Sheesh
Comment from : SuJen G

I couldnt bare to see my mother or brother in a bad placeI wouldnt be able to enjoy my life if they couldnt enjoy theirs shes not asking for drugs shes asking for a higher quality life NEAR where her son lives
Comment from : coco

What’s the small business
Comment from : Ray Corona

Oh my god ask Dave a question will ya
Comment from : Hot4 Teacherz

"Disability" is code for welfare
Comment from : jcman240

if mom moves near him, she will cling to him like a barnacle
Comment from : Cassie

I was so fortunate growing up to always be the kid in the relationship with my parents
Comment from : Moe Wilson

The mom probably didn't like her house and burnt it because she knew that her son would help with a better one
Comment from : DragonGuy GTO

DONT GIVE HER MONEY
Comment from : Perri Stevens

As an adult with a 90 year old mother let me explain something to you You allow yourself feel guilty Your mother has no ability to do it You have to get to the point that you remove your emotions or this will be a miserable life
Comment from : Flower power

Mom is an addict and is on disability (taxpayer money)only in America
Comment from : Joyce Taylor

Dave is good He answered the question that hadn't been asked
Comment from : iced gaming

Whenever I expect someone will ask me for money, I pull out the Reverse Uno card Never fails
Comment from : Brad

When family/friends asks us for money we will give them a job to do for the money My husband owns his own business that he could pay someone for and we can always use help cleaning the house etc
Comment from : Our Large Family Life

Get to the point, this dude just flaps his mouth, question could have been clearly made in 15 seconds
Comment from : eckankar

Dave is wonderful at cutting the chase with specific, data driven questions How much? How long? How often?
Comment from : Daffyd Lwellen

Bro help your mom out That's what a dutiful sons do Sure discuss it with your wife but give your mom some help💰
Comment from : Gary Kane

5:17 You don’t give money to your spouse It already belongs to him/her
Comment from : David Milhous Carter

I'm so glad Dave recommended Henry Cloud's book Some of the toughest conversations I learned how to have, I was empowered to do based on that book I've had people react all different ways to a calm, eyes-direct sentence that ended with, "and that is not acceptable to me"
Comment from : Sherry Ellesson

DID HE SAY MAMA BURNED THE HOUSE???!!! YEA I WOULD HESITATE TO GIVE HER MONEY TOO
Comment from : Zeal4God

Poverty is a mind set
Comment from : mytwosents

I'm not sure that you have no moral obligation to your family financially I would want to hash that out There are a lot of Biblical examples that prescribe helping your family out, that was why you had to marry your sister in law if your brother died, etc
Comment from : Helena and Isabelle Horne 1

bIf your family wants you to help them get out of their financial woes tell them to listen to Dave Ramsey!/b
Comment from : grindhouserob

Caller: I have a question DavebrDave: Better than I deserve, but sell the car
Comment from : Josh Crosland

Your mum is an adult Tell everyone's you are not lending any money out Your done and they need to sort themselves outbrbrIf I was on his position I would move and not tell anyone where I am
Comment from : Cash kitty 🐈

This caller gave me anxiety
Comment from : Cal

Poor guy has no Balls He’s nervous just asked the question scared that Dave Ramsey reply might not be what he wants to hear
Comment from : Profit mix

Ummmmmm, I would help my mama 🥴
Comment from : Chassiddy Williams

Got to the freaking point omg
Comment from : Chevy

Sounds like mom/family are addicts Poor guy It’s so hard to set boundaries with addicts, they will steamroll right though them My now-passed mom was an addict and I can relate so much
Comment from : Billy Bob

I wonder how Dave Ramsey would handle a typical Asian American call regarding parents EXPECTING MONEY from their children via filial piety
Comment from : Trung Pham