What really matters at the end of life | BJ Miller

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Title	:	What really matters at the end of life \| BJ Miller
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what a beautiful human
Comment from : Shannon Smuts

Bro said bon the other hand/b
Comment from : Bamb8s

Outstanding presentation Wonderfully explained and very much APPRECIATED!!
Comment from : Marlene McNew

You Lost me at the politik part just go straight to the point boring af
Comment from : anonymous 26

He is alive now ?
Comment from : Imanem

Sir! It's amazing to listen your speech You valuable words, expression, the deep breath during speech and deep explanation related you life experience with reality is a inspection to me It reminds me " Don't die before death" thank you so much for your inspiration🙏🙏
Comment from : Biswas Rocky

Life is only worth it if life never gives you obstacles and pain, for example, being bullied as a child where it scars you as an adult, being born a certain way, while the majority of society is born the same, having certain people not give you a chance because of their position in a company, and a world of 3 classes - poor middle class, and rich I'd rather not live is I have to re-live this all over again
Comment from : DAPPERLY GRUNGY

Wow
Comment from : LIFEPEEK

Rich
Comment from : Teacher Kamonde

As beautiful a talk about dying that this is, the system is broken globally, the whole planet throws near death patients into the bin before they are dead No respect
Comment from : Michael Kelleher

❤️‍🔥🐸
Comment from : Christina H

Wow what a beautiful message he has given us Thank you
Comment from : Tuptim Malakul

Very emotional and so very true
Comment from : NP

The only reason we are here is to learn to love God in our actions
Comment from : The Art Z Scientist

I found this very moving and thought provoking ❤️
Comment from : Joanna

"Making Life more Wonderful, brrather than just lessbrHorrible"
Comment from : Sandra Pulsipher

“Crescendo through to the end … We can’t solve for death … meanwhile, we can design towards it” 17:24
Comment from : cat box cleaner

Beautiful and profound, BJ Miller Your thoughts , delivered with such heart and mind connection, will stay with me, and help me live and help me help others live all the way to the end Thank you,br br"Since dying is a necessary part of life I am suggesting we make space - physical, psychic room - to allow life to play itself all the way out, so rather than just getting out of the way, aging and dying can be a process of crescendo to the end!brParts of me died early on and that's something we can all say in one way or another, and I got to redesign my life around this fact, and I tell you it has been a liberationbrto realize you can always find a shock of beauty or meaning in what life you have left brLike that snowball lasting for a perfect moment and all the while melting awayybr If we love such moments ferociously, than we can live well, not in spite of death, but because of it brI am suggesting we make space - physical, psychic room to allow life to play itself all the way out, so rather than just getting out of the way, aging and dying can be a process of crescendo to the end,br Let death be what takes us, not lack of imagination"
Comment from : Leesha Fagan

Thank you This was very beautiful🙏🏻🕊️💖✨
Comment from : Mimi

If you can truly laugh you can also truly cry Thankyou❤
Comment from : Elizabeth Ash

It's been a while since I've seen it by the first time I really could not share any of my thoughts,though But, I will We all have been dealing with quite tough see situations Either from our own matters or worldwide issues So just to make it short, the heart of the matter, concerning this particular lifestory, comes up to remind us all about one great thought We are capable of, no matter how ❤
Comment from : Romeu A

Dr Miller brI’m not good enough to understand all your speech, but why I get a teary-eyed at the end! brbrThanks for sharing and inspirational speech ❤
Comment from : Sau Man Lui

Asked my phone "whats the most popular podcast on YT right now ?" And thid is where it brought me 😅
Comment from : Amy Clare

Here in Singapore, Our Government has it all figured Out… They’re Experts at STEALING everything back from You & your Kids 😂😂😂
Comment from : HS

7:22 I regret running my brothers funeral, as ever his wishes As he didn't want it to be religious as his mother would insist on (they didn't get along), so I did brEven found a way to include the concept of God, but keeping it science basedbrFirst words, from a member of his Northern side, a woman I've never seen before in Mt lifebrBlocks my patch and says 'that's the worst thing I've ever heard' I excused myself for a smoke, and when asked said nothing g for risk of outburstbrFYI- those words where requested for use by another funeral 3 months later, after member refold best they cold to a person in morning
Comment from : James Dean

Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 NIV)
Comment from : Caminando en su Verdad

What a sophisticated, handsome man, in a touching speech that indicates his strength and lust for life For me he is so lovable!
Comment from : Sappho

we should celebrate only this kind of people with a mission, a vision and thoughts of value which their share and not hollywoodies and tiktokers
Comment from : Jay Jay

More wonderful, instead of less horrible
Comment from : Mary Bratton

I work in healthcare Lots of words,but I don't get himbrCertainly some one with tremendous courage We do the best we can in a flawed system
Comment from : Brenda Day

WHAT A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING YOU ARE !!!!!
Comment from : Isaac Gabbai

Cosmic rightsizing What a description
Comment from : Michael Zheng

(⁠◔⁠‿⁠◔⁠)
Comment from : Glicel Ann Layogue

JESUS CHRIST IS THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE! PERIOD
Comment from : Ali Pérez

❤
Comment from : lilmons

Thank you
Comment from : Sasidhar Sai

Beautiful!!
Comment from : Nitro Riley

I can not believe HOW Much This means to Me!!! Validation and Affirmation!!! Thank You!!!
Comment from : Kathleen Billock

Восхитительно! Личность высокого ума Спасибо!
Comment from : Оксана Ушкина

Amazing how this started like a powerful movie Like the conversation had already started before he sat down
Comment from : HüDO NēDEM

The fact that we will die and we know this will happen is such a big part of human It drives us in many ways So this call to improve how people can get there is not surprising brSome key parts of this video for me were:br16:23 Disease centered vs Human Centered hospitals br16:43 how humans elevate basic needs
Comment from : kittyC 997

may be a great speech but u cried as u come to this world no matter what it was
Comment from : happyPankeyk

💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Comment from : Leeway conscious

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Comment from : Ariel Fedrigotti

😊
Comment from : Choden Choden

What watch was he wearing?
Comment from : MrLoughneagh

What a lovely man with such a heartfelt message
Comment from : Cass Riley

I feel so sad and intense loneliness Sometimes I think death is the only solution to ending it all, cause it never gets better, only harder
Comment from : Faith Tembo

He understood the meaning of life :kindness ,compassion and love in all circumstances
Comment from : butterfly

I liked this before I started it
Comment from : ailehannahoj

Nothing matter We all forget about it even our deep meaningful experience in life brbrI believe that whatever you programmed your mind too That will be your reincarnation in the aftelife Weather u be an insect, trees, flowers, animals, sea creatures, etc
Comment from : No Excuses

We should not worry about DEATH because we are already dead brbrBoth of my parents died of blood clogs (father in lung and mother in brain) silently, peacefully, and unexpectedlybrbrTo me - This speech drains lots of unnecessary emotions He might need to seek psychiatric assistance and/or change his job if he could not deal with the emotional toll of working with patients who are seriously ill or dying in hospice brbrCHERISH life with positive energy and make the BEST for ourselves and others until we died since no one knows when death happens……Amen 😇
Comment from : Connie Lau

Wow my only thought and feeling while listening to you is that who is this man wow I’m so impressed and in awe of the awareness understanding of life and death and the talent to convey his message is truly phenomenal , anyone that has any influence listen to this guy, and focusing on one of if not the most important aspects and transitioning points in our lives, while shining a light on living life and surrendering to life’s lessons, just beautiful and transformative
Comment from : Jun Yin

Very good points!!!❤❤❤
Comment from : cynthia freed

"Learn to live well not in spite of death, but because of it" Words of wisdom! Thank you! Moved to tears so many times listening to this great speech
Comment from : 聽賓狗學英文

This didn’t happen to him, it just happened
Comment from : Brian McNellis

WHAT MATTER IS THAT DURING THE TIME YOU ARE IN THIS PLANET YOU HELP OTHER CARE FOR OTHERS CHANGE THE LIFE FOR OTHERS AT THE END OF LIFE YOU WILL DISCOVER THE MEANING OF LIFE
Comment from : J c

What a beautiful human
Comment from : jJ Lama

The big Pharma are pocketing the tax dollars They are more interested in making healthy people ill through hooking them on pills
Comment from : David Harness

ignore the fact that greed rules business in the USA including "non profits," insurance decides diagnosis while obvious is that healthcare is a racket ruled by ruthless pharmaceutical industry
Comment from : Le Incognito

Jessie Smith
Comment from : Jessie S

Be that nurse! brIt's free, yet so valuable brWe can all do it and all it takes is to think of Another's wellbeing bras well as, or above, Our Own br🌬🕊💚
Comment from : Drew Hurst

Everything he said, took my breath away……❤
Comment from : Kristina

0:00: 💡 The healthcare system is designed around disease, not people, and needs to be reimagined to improve end-of-life carebr6:02: 💡 The speaker discusses the importance of palliative care and changing perspectives in end-of-life carebr11:02: ❄ Finding beauty in the smallest things can bring comfort and joy, even in the face of deathbr15:33: 🎉 The speaker discusses the importance of living a fulfilling life and finding joy in the face of deathbrRecap by Tammy AI
Comment from : Chris Lee

The emotional intellengence of this man had me in tears Its too damn rare to find a man so well in touch with his inner being and that is a really attractive thing indeed True testiment to trauma being faced front on and the long term benefits it can gift a person when they are able to realise and articulate that in emotional terms Emotional understanding can be articulated much more powerfully when you have a greater capacity to understand how to read situations and adjust to another persons needs - empathy brbrunfortunately emotional intellengence is not something we value enough of I am a very fortunate man, i have friends who know that im facing a long term of suffering that will eventually take my life They know what makes me happy, they know how i feel because i can tell them everything, even those moments i have experienced where i could articulate that i have suffered too much and i think its time to go They were able to deeply listen without the need to change the topic or deflect etc but just to be there It was like getting the euthanasia medication and knowing it was there but not needing to take it brbrAnyways Bruce thank you so very much I find myself so happy for those peoples you travel with, and i can see it in your eyes, what they all have left with you :-)
Comment from : daddy dancer

I wish Nick Vujicic would reach out to him and give him some hope From the look of his eyes, he seems to be death inside It's like he died a long time ago Prayers for him 🙏
Comment from : Christian American Dominican

wow what a beautiful man ! his soulmate must be very lucky
Comment from : r x

🙌
Comment from : Sultani Z

Excelente vídeo! Obrigado por compartilhar seu conhecimento
Comment from : Yury Ribeiro

Thank you so much,best wish for u
Comment from : Galvin

Actually one of my friends brother did the same, climbed on top of the train ended up having severe burns about 60+ of his body Survived
Comment from : This And That

Thank you very much
Comment from : Pam Teal

I'm trying but I don't get what he's saying <|3
Comment from : °●°

I have a family member with a multifactoral terminal illnesses, who, under the right circumstances could last a year or two I wanted to mentally prepare myself for the best way to spend time with this partywatching this gave me the answers I need It is such simple thingsjust being there, and doing whatever brings beauty or meaning to his days Thank you for sharing your insight and experiences with us
Comment from : Sunflower Girl

Thank you for sharing your life experiences with us!
Comment from : Gato Almohada

I hate living thinking dauly about dying Or something happening to my husband and i have to be alone We have no kids and very small family I met him in my 30s after a 9 yr abusive relationship Im very thankful but deal with anticipated grief that makes it hard to live in the moment
Comment from : William Eyelash

A sea of tears and audible 👁️ ❤
Comment from : Nadia Fawad

He performed the human transmutation
Comment from : Devashish Biswas

Love❤
Comment from : Geza Bayu

Flower petals are a lovely idea But I would prefer chocolate chips
Comment from : Emily Feagin

انا من العراقbrاذا شاهدة هذا التعليق بعد خمس سنوات فكتب لي شي
Comment from : وليد الكبيسي

I died in 2013 after losing over 2qts of blood from a laceration to my femoral artery brbrThis happened a few years after a painful divorce from the love of my life due to choices I had made To be clear we both made mistakes in our own way and we had a wedge between us from people who wanted us to split brbrWhile I was dead in those three minutes that felt like hours, I saw the other side I was in heaven and didn’t want to come back because all of the pain and suffering I had been through I felt the greatest love in my life while in that field in the sky and it felt much like the love I had in my lifelong marriage, yet circumstances led us to break Death was knocking but apparently it wasn’t my time brbrA defibrillator brought me back and I didn’t understand this reviving while I was getting embraced by an angel who was telling me everything would be ok I was confusedbrbrThis feeling was the greatest love and I had relief from all my physical pain and the ugliness of our world brbrI am now happy to say that I am alive and thriving in spirit I have woken up, a new vision, knowing my journey in life was finally helping me realize and understand who I was as a person and that life had bigger plans for mebrbrWe have been reviving our marriage and we both have had to go through all of that heartache over again in order to work through the pains that led to our divorce in the first place brbrThis has been a healing process and a moment of clarity as we both understood the truth of what really happenedbrbrBoth of us had relationships with other people during our break that we knew in our hearts was wrong We eventually decided we’d be single yet had no idea of the others similar choice brbrWe felt very empty without each other because of those we we chose a life of celibacy brbrYears have gone by without any communication until the recent months and with a tantamount of communication we knew we were always very much In LovebrbrI’m happy to say we’re getting remarriedbrbrYou’ll never know what life has intended for you until you continue to persevere
Comment from : Due Diligence

Very intelligent men!! I learned a lot! Thank you ❤ Now I have a different perspective of death/end of life, grandma’s legacy still going on, she is always with me❤❤
Comment from : Jacqueline

How am I, “an intellectual” literally, just seeing this I’m 2 minutes in and he’s bringing me back to myself
Comment from : Armando

She spoke very well, no matter how sad her life story is a, person Who endures difficulties still has hope , it shows hope
Comment from : Nehir Karadaş

Assistindo em 2023 Tuas palavras nos leva a refletir sobre o que realmente importa Gratidão!🙏
Comment from : Hélio Mineiro Sanfoneiro

omg scary
Comment from : Nuran Arrowood

I believe in dying fighting for your own cause, in your own way, regardless of whether it is completed or not, and learning about who you really were in life
Comment from : •Ravenstorm•