| Title | : | The person you really need to marry | Tracy McMillan | TEDxOlympicBlvdWomen |
| Lasting | : | 13.59 |
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| Views | : | 17 jt |
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This is so true I have heard this from others also You need to understand and marry yourself for being able to marry another person This is so strong Comment from : Dipaneeta Roy |
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Great speech Tracy Thanks for the advice Comment from : B Serene |
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This just sounds like self-back-patting for narcissistsbrPainfullly slow explanation of marriage vows to oneself, I, I, I, and has some explanatory power over a track record that does not merit authoritybrHad to say it brConveniently omits the section on "forsaking all others"brIt creates a narcissistic conundrum Comment from : OneVoiceMore |
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$10 says she leaves herself a handful for years later lol just like she left all her other ex’s Comment from : Connor Falck |
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What an inspiration Just what I needed Comment from : jmcconne |
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wow, I really enjoyed watching this woman talk well done Tracy! Comment from : Elizabeth |
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Loved her and the msg is a great one 💖🤸🏻♀️ Comment from : anu siva |
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This is really powerful ted talk brThe lady nd her story brWhat she learned from his life is just amazingbrThe way she expressed herself I love it brThe lines she said from someone other saying brYou asked for patience and what you get is a line at the bank and the explaintion of this lines hit me hard it's related to me brI m listining this after 9 years brMaybe this is the right time for me to learn these things brThanks mam❤ Comment from : learn to grow |
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Become the person you are looking for Comment from : Home Movies and Other Stuff |
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Word: She is doing WGTOW! Good for her Some people were not meant to be married because they lack great chemistry WGTOW Stands for: Women going their own Way She can do great things by herself such as doing community service, work at her job, attend Church, to do some painting, as well as Volunteering at a school She can be a great version of herself each and every day She does not have to be married to a man because the Universe has already told her that marriage was not and is not for her Not being married may sting a little bit, but it can be silenced by one if one is kept occupied with things You have to love yourself first even if it means that you will end up single, forever Many people are not married due to them having bad chemistry August 28 2023 USA Comment from : Jay 2080 |
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After experiencing so many things, I bet some of them must be suffering, you can still be so optimistic and talk your own stories with a smile You are so brave, Tracy I am really touched Hope you doing well Comment from : Aileen |
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I am absolutely in love with Tracy! She's so charismatic and happy that you can literally fell it, even though she's miles away I'm sure she's doing great nowadays Comment from : Valerie Ilyasova |
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Fun! Comment from : Emily Cedeno |
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This self-absorbed mess of a woman has to believe she is a teacher in order to feel good about her wreck of a lifebrShe got the man she needed in order to grow into the person she could have, and should have, been but she didn’t like the pain of the effort so she quit And she quit again And she quit again “Herself” is NOT the person she needed to marry When you marry yourself you stop growing as a person become you become even more self-absorbed than you already were Comment from : Kyle Ponsford |
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እረየሚስትያለህ Comment from : Tesfamiram Agalel |
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እኔ፣እፈልጋሐው፣በእውነት Comment from : Tesfamiram Agalel |
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After listening to this for 6 minutes the only thing that comes to my mind is Bender from Futurama: "hahaha oh, you're serious, let me laugh harder HAHAHA" brbrI'm still surprised to this day how people would build these intricate illusions only to avoid facing reality "Self love", "marry yourself" what the heck is that? If you can write an elaborate discourse, emotionally charged and impressive, it does not mean it has any meaning or value My grandma's recipe for apple cheesecake has more meaning than her entire video Comment from : Cetatean Turmentat |
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I would rather be single than mismatched Comment from : Chris McBee |
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What I noticed here is how respectful the audience is The woman makes a lot of self dispariging jokes and the audience is not quick to laugh too hard, not to make her feel bad Comment from : Filip Baranowski |
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My mother told me when I was a teenager “ don’t ever expect someone to come into your Life to make you happy, you need to find happiness within yourself” similar as self love I am now a psychiatrist and i give similar advise brLove the “marry yourself “conceptbrSo many training in my field but such a simple truth that I learned from mom Comment from : susanaC |
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The best person for yourself is YOU ❤😊 Comment from : Be Kind |
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the one person you want to marry also needs to be interested And available Comment from : Valerian DSouza |
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i can't help myself but to love for i'm a loving being Comment from : John Smith |
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i can't get to where i'm going until i am where i am atwhen 2 wholes get together you really got something but that doesn't happen by oneselflife always gives me, has given me, what i need and , usually , what i want and ALWAYS more than i bargain forif i'm whole , being rejected by another person doesn't phase me i'm married to God and get laid everyday and sometimes i get f--kedAlain de Buton mentions , i think , a cool 'truth' 'if you don't seem to able to be in a satisfactory relationship , perhaps , you haven't come across the partner who knows how to torture you well enough' (to enhance your whole so you don't think you're holier than thou)long ago i came across 'i know you believe you think you understood what i said, but i'm not sure you realize what you heard is what i meant'OMski Comment from : John Smith |
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so wise, wonderful, humorous and right onthanksOMski ps you're beautiful Comment from : John Smith |
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but you do not understand reality or moralityenjoy the cats Comment from : patrick cowan |
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With tears,, Comment from : Taeko Asano |
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Loving yourself exactly where you are is the only way to get where you are going Comment from : Dee Dee |
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👏👏👏👏👏 Comment from : Tshireletso Evah |
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Marry yourself knowing how to comfort yourself, how to nurse yourself I learned I am someone I can comfort myself I realized I am never going to feel home till I love myself Comment from : Sadia Arman |
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taking advice from a selfish brat who divorced 3 times yes the end of days are here Comment from : Nur Said |
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So, you're rationalizing your bad choices by giving bad advice? Married three times would suggest that the best advice you could give was what not to do Sad I hope you're learned to not be so bitter and angry in the last 9 years You learn to love yourself, you'll find someone to love you Comment from : Russell Monson |
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خريط Comment from : Saad Naif |
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Yes Ladies and gentlemen we really must know how to practice extreme self love and self care!!! So healing!!! Makes you complete love this Tedex Comment from : Ida Mendez |
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No Comment from : PJay2718281828 |
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A mistake is actually a failure unless you don't learn from itbrbrLove yourself the way you want someone to love you Comment from : Lets Learn |
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Lovely talk! Comment from : Tina |
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LOL @ looking at yourself and thinking, “you want me to marry her?” Hahaha 😂 Comment from : Sarah |
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I love this woman's perspective so beautifulbrbrI said this to myself years ago " never trust a person who doesnt have scars to show "This woman bears the marks of 3 past marriages , yet she brings out of them one of the most amazing lesson that all of us should learn : brLOVE YOURSELF THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE LOVED Comment from : Jeremy Van Briesies |
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Hmmm… All I heard was “me me me me me”brbrThe day that you give up control, self focus, and care about how your actions affect other people…is the day you’ll finally understand love Comment from : 2022Bobber |
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I just learned how to nurse myself, so I think I’m making professing It was painful Comment from : Jessica Y |
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So it’s a Ted talk, and Tracy is talking It’s Ted and Tracy all over again Comment from : Arpita Navlakhe |
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That means you got a lot of free money Comment from : francesco bruno cia |
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Thank you!brIt's enough help my self through this situation right now Comment from : abc |
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Amazing video!! Wow! Thanks so much for this, i think i have to re-watch it over and over and over to memorize many parts from it, it had such an impact on me with powerful messages! So many sentences resonated with me totally ❤❤ Comment from : Szilvia Sztankovits |
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This came out 9 years ago?brbrI wonder how her 19th marriage is going… Comment from : I’m Joking |
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thanks for sharing 😊 Comment from : Humairah M |
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God bless her Comment from : MrL1N |
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So powerful: life doesn’t give you what you ask for Life gives you the people, places and situations which allow you to develop what you asked for Comment from : Gina L |
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"I got down on one knee and said i will never leave you" to yourself So powerful and that is what we deserve To look ourselves in the mirror and marry who we are Before even considering dating 💚 Comment from : Celeste Mowrer |
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آخ چقدر دوست داشتنی بود این سخنرانی این آدم Comment from : Soroor Raiskarimi |
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True love is the love you give to yourself Comment from : น้อง มอส |
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I also dated a guy who made me feel really comfortable in his presence Unfortunately he got sick for quite a while so we ended up not seeing each other for two month When we finally met again he didn't give me that good feeling which I had in his presence anymore I actually thought he became quite mean to me No idea what happened Bad luck I guess Comment from : Klara Sicht |
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I watched many TED talks already, but I really like this one! 💝 Thank you 🍀 Comment from : Klara Sicht |
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Any arguments on that? Comment from : Alexandru Baginean |
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WOW!!! worst relationship advice EVER This is clearly a woman without a clue as to what MEN want in a WIFE For a marriage to work, you must put your spouse 1st, not yourself If you are married to yourself, who are you putting 1st (since you now have 2 spouses)? A MAN (not a boy) wants to be a provider He NEEDS to be NEEDED A man needs to provide security to be happy in his marriage She comes right out and says that she no longer seeks security in a partner, because she has already given that to herself This is the CLOWN WORLD WE LIVE IN!!! Comment from : CORIE CURCILLO |
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Guys, just stay single If women really know how to please men, the vice, prostitutiob, social escort services would not thrive and survive the Covid Comment from : MrFarang10 |
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To me the choice is easy- always to look who i am becoming next to person If the influence is good- he is the right one, if the influence is bad- like provoked insecurity - this is wrong direction Comment from : VICTORIA KYIV, UA |
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The thing about loving yourself is that you teach others how to treat you If you do not respect yourself nobody will Wish I knew this at the start of my marriage and parenthood But here's what I found: you can turn things around and set new boundaries ❤❤ Comment from : Fee Asco |
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Poor men 😭 Comment from : Gary Kemple |
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Ur huspen is fair for cancer🥸 Comment from : Gary Kemple |
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❤❤❤ Comment from : Emma J |
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No one is the correct answer Comment from : Corrie |
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Is the show Unprisoned with Kerry Washington on Hulu based on her? 🤔 Comment from : D B |
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She’s so adorable! Did she ever get married to the new guy? Comment from : Lavybaby |
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After watching this, I think I am gonna get myself a ring Comment from : Faye |
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Absolutely beautiful!!! I was taking notes like crazy while you were talking Thank you & wish you all the best Comment from : Tim L |
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i love this so much, because I hear a constant stream of "focus on you" "love yourself" "put yourself first" but never a process for HOW to do that she laid it out so well and easily accessible, so it doesn't seem like this impossible thing Thank You! 🙏🏻 Comment from : Mary Karen Crittenden |
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Granted she had a difficult life but she is a train wreck! Comment from : Robert Doerr |
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Woow the best one Comment from : Anamika PA |
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One thing l liked about her is that she happy and proud of herself and mostly her last stetement that she never leave herself thanks Comment from : Kwagala Recheal |
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She is amazing! We have so much to learn from her life and words!! Comment from : Paulo Henrique Melo |
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Beautiful woman, you're so brave and generous to share your life story It's solid gold Thank you❤ Comment from : Saraí Fascinetto |
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no offense but why would i take advice from someone with 3 marriages i don’t want to marry myself i want a wife lmao Comment from : Johnster02 |
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U r amazing person ❤️ tracy Comment from : Ankita Tantuway |
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Tracy, you are probably never gonna read these words I'm typing right now, cause, well too many comments in a TEDx Talks video, right? Matters not I'll let it out of me wish I could tell you in person I really really feel those happy tears in the end of your talk, I'm right now in a very similar moment, learning how to accept myself exctly as I am, after falling very very sick from childhood trauma And i say that just to explain why - and because I'm kinda verbose person But really, you are splendid, that's what you are! I wish I could say to yourself that your tears have been felt from here Comment from : Hami C |
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❤ Comment from : Fina Dianti |
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I'm proud of you! Comment from : freaky00020021 |
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Her aura 🤍 Comment from : Dy Daniel |
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This message is so beautiful A woman with the failure of three marriages, most people would mock and discredit her But with her experience she is not bitter, she is full of knowledge because of her experiences One of the best Ted Talks I’ve heard Comment from : Sim Babs |
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I think this woman is not so reliable and trustworthy of what she is saying During her first two marriages, she just has ridden on her husbands' coat-tails So in fact it would be like love-marriage-baby carriage, but she just decided not She has decided to have her life more complicated, but first use the first and second husbands' kindness, will and love or in these cases - innocence Shame on her, she would better to shup up Comment from : Andrzej Kuśnierczak |
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I just adore her!! Comment from : Sara Cerrone |
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They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past i didn't realized that he would use it all against me He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm Thank to @cyber_tech_service_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him Comment from : Maeva Mark |
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Not my first time watching and loving, but this time was maybe my favorite Such a beautiful and wonderful and inspiring woman and talk❤️ Comment from : Cassandra Carlow |
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Love of love Comment from : MBTI |
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What's even better is to have a relationship with GodbrYou will stand on a solid rock and not be shaken Comment from : T K |
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Saya bukan OKU Comment from : Sin Hua Sho |
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The relationship you have with yourself you are going to have with them👍 Comment from : Adhrika Syam |
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