Title | : | 6 Reasons Why You Should NEVER Lend Money. |
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Views | : | 32 rb |
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Its dangerous lending money to family Comment from : Martin musokem |
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A lot of times they have money to pay you back but don't pay back because they see themselves losing money not paying someone back Comment from : New Mexico Baller |
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I learned long ago never to lend money to "friends" I found I spent my time chasing them up to get the money back! Lending money to friends give them amnesia!!! Comment from : Moira Hurley |
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When you lend out money, they keep coming for more because now you like their payday loan bank Give them a list of payday loan companies and tell them to fuck offjust kidding Just kindly give them a list of pay loan websites😂 i learn my lesson to never do that again ever againif you lend out twice and you say no the third time, they will curse you out verbally or mentally in secret so dont do it If they short a few bucks paying for an outing at dinner its ok, only when the amount is more than $20 and up Say no There are a lot of freeloaders out there Comment from : Aryeh |
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Happened so many times Never lending again Comment from : Alexander Harries |
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I'm here because a friend has borrowed 4 times (starting to add up) assuring me I'd be repaid but I'm not seeing it Comment from : CMon719* |
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Yes lending money to people it cause problems I can’t lend money to my brother He sucks at paying people back People had to wait for months for him to pay it all back to them as well as me Comment from : Un Title1 |
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Lending money friends means we lost one more friend Comment from : subin suresh |
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Great video! Comment from : Anxiety Mentor |
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I was searching for this topic and have to genuinely compliment you yhe way you describes the topic in the video Thank you 😊 Comment from : Nishant Tyagi |
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What do you think of loaning money with interest? If a friend offers you to pay with interest Comment from : Andriy Bilan |
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This video is the truth! Comment from : Nikki News |
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I shouldn't have given money to my coworker I pitied her because she was a poor single mom Recently she got a bf, got pregnant again (in like 3months),and now he left her I should cut ties with her because I'm sure she's gonna ask for more money, as a single mom of 2 Comment from : imi |
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I lended a family memeber 1600k Pakistani rupees but no i only regret upon it Comment from : THE FAKE TECH |
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A friend of mine has just asked to borrow $200 but I have decided the answer from me will be no Over my life time I have lost hundreds of dollars by "lending" and have never been paid back I feel this particular friend has failed to take the steps necessary to change the course in her life that will enable her to be in a better place with her finances Comment from : moosefactory133 |
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Once a friends asks you for money the relationship is screwed either way because if you say no they’re gonna question the friendship and if you say yes they’ll never pay you back But in the end the fact that they’re in debt is not your problem so screw them if they don’t want to talk to you Comment from : Danny Inguadala |
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Thanks you madam Comment from : Richard Dagadu |
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the money that comes back after lending is lottery for me because not every time that happens 😂 Comment from : Vivek Nairp |
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I have lend so much money to my friends and relativesbr Now I don't get back and I don't know what to do Comment from : Chezhuto Yeptho |
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I have helped them several times since last 3 years but they are still taking advantage and keep asking for money Comment from : Great Things |
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So I’m actually very financially sound and have a good house and a nice car I paid for in cash One of my friends is always struggling financially and recently asked me to lend her $1,000 I don’t mind giving it to her as a gift entirely with no expectation of repayment, but I’m afraid this will open to the door for her to continue asking for more going forward Is it better to just decline now even though I want to help her? Comment from : Akshay Bajpai |
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Soon as you lend money or give credit to someone you never hear from them they avoid your calls or msgs they get aggressive when you ask them for your money back brPeople that borrow never have money brThey may have issues gambling drug’s drinking or just tight and don’t like spending their own money Comment from : Paul Lynch |
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I lent someone money They were my cousin I grew up with Never paid back He has 2 more kids since I lent him money and I have seen them gone to Disneyland for a week but when I ask for the moey back, always an excuse Oh I had cancer Comment from : Gamer Dell |
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I DEPEND ON WHAT I COULD BUY BUT STILL I NOW DO NOT EXPECT MUCH I KNOW I CANNOT GET WHAT I WANT UNLESS I HAVE MY OWN MONEY THAT IS ALSO GOT TO BE ENOUGH Comment from : Thomas |
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BUT THE GOVERMENT THINKS IT IS MY MOTHER'S BUT MY MONEY IS CONTROLLED I COULD ONLY TRUST MY DAD WITH IT BECAUSE HE NEVER WANTS MY MONEY AND I NEVER LEND IT TO STRANGERS I LEND TO SHAWN IF HE NEEDS IT BUT HE DOES NOT USE IT HE KNOWS IT IS HARD TO OWN ALOT OF CASH HE EVEN SAYS USE IT YOURSELVES Comment from : Thomas |
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Great brbrI give and do not lend Comment from : Judith Grace |
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I can totally relate I wanted to be seen as a hero as helper coming to someones rescue well that didnt get me far Never got my money back Comment from : RVW |
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I don't feel comfortable lending a large amount of money I'd rather be a cheerful giver or not at all! Comment from : Maria C |
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I once lent money to a friend in Mexico that needed money for three days in order to buy medicine for his dying aunt It was a really stressful decision but I decided to trust him He paid me back three days laterbrOne thing to take into consideration is that Mexico is largely an honor society, family values are the glue that hold the social fabric together My friend did not ask me for the money without his family’s knowledge, the entire family was asking for the emergency loan, and I knew their family honor was worth more to them than the moneybrIm here now because my best friend just asked me for money I suspect his wife and mother don’t know I told him I’d gladly lend the money with the permission and blessings of his mom, who is the matriarch of a large extended family Comment from : Zach |
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disappointment all the timereally disspointedso many text until i ask back for some and no more text messages since Comment from : A Metal Journey |
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I'll answer this in the first 10 seconds hell no it's a bad idea to lend money to friends unless you want to see a leach Comment from : BC Benny-TANK TOP COOKING |
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Good lesson for everyone Comment from : Singh s |
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Definitely, don't lend money that will put you in a bind, if you don't get it back I learned that by loaning to my own father Comment from : reginald robinson |
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💯 percent I agree with you brThank you 😊 Comment from : kuldeep rock star |
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I've been in this situation for quite a while and I'm now finally putting an end to it I've heard the phrase "I'll pay you back" so many times but haven't gotten one cent back They think they're entitled to YOUR money Comment from : JazzGaming |
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Don’t allow adults to use you as a bank 🏦 Comment from : Landscaping Entrepreneur |
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I loaned money to a coworker in the past to help out their relatives As soon as, I was expecting to be repaid (as agreed) I was immediately made out to be the bad guy When I finally was repaid ( less than agreed) I was scorned I let it go; time passed I loaned again, as the same person had been out of the country, not working and seemed to be in a bind I feel like a fool and am now, presently, awaiting the aftermath 🙄 fml never again Comment from : z Ed |
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What can I do if my boyfriend borrowed money and I feel guilty I don't know what to say and I feel he is disappoint I can't help him what should I do? Comment from : Melanie Gonzales |
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Some even borrow every month, same amount 😆so they budgeting with your money now Comment from : JesusisLord1103 |
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Will never ever do that If I lend money to someone for eg $1000 I expect it to be paid back to me in the same total of $1000 and not $100 at a time untill it's fully paid up I ain't a bank, cos you won't like the interest I add on top of what is owed if any Comment from : The Violin Room |
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Oh God if I would have known 🤒 Comment from : lisa jROCKS |
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I really like this perspective Comment from : Kue57 |
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My friend has a job but he lives with his roommate and they barely come byi offered him some money because i hate to see and hear him in a state where he doesnt have anything to eat Comment from : ki_ba |
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hey my nanny borrow abt like money from me 2 times and have not returned it??? she also said dont tell my mom cause she shy she said she doesn’t have money but my dad gave her Comment from : Anti Spiral King |
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I am a professional I work 5 days a week to get my salary I get annoyed and irritated when a few of my friends who don't work , just sit and enjoy their life, gossip, keep sticking to their phones come around and ask money It has become a daily thing So frustrated and annoyed with this Even if I ignore their calls they keep on calling And the most annoying this is that once i say nothey would disappear for a few days and come back again asking money This process is repeated Comment from : RAHMAN TV |
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Some friends return the money without even reminding them back but some never return even after continuously reminding them Every time they come up with some excuses or stories Do they even have self-respect for themselves Totally cheap mentality I'm financially not so stable and still lend some money to some friends out of pity and kindness but they turn the deaf ears while asking them to return brbrWhatever my conditions are I never ask for money from someone rather I dwell in my own necessitiesbrbrI will never lend money to those kinds of people ever in my life It only gives the mental trauma Comment from : Tarun Kumar |
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It's always can you ^ help^ me ALWAYS Comment from : Bluntly Honest |
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What if I lended the money to a woman? Am I screwed? Comment from : Alejandro Pacheco |
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Waiting for my $1000 from my father in law, as he had taken for his business purpose and had told that he will return soon It's been 7 months now He doesn't talk abt it M in such a weird situation now, can't even ask for it and keep smiling everytime we meet How to handle this situation? Had told this to my wife recently n she's like "would you ever take money back from your own father if he had taken it?" Now that's really complicated for me Should I move on and never think of that money ? Comment from : Ashish Shinde |
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This video is helping me with getting over being cheated because I lent some money and became obsessed after realizing it wasn't a good idea Comment from : Me |
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Yes I am facing same problem when my friend asked money I blocked them or I deactivate my social media Comment from : Aakash Karki |
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I always say I don't have it Period Comment from : Donna Bennett |
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A friend of mine would group text his family or friends for money even though he didn't need it He actually did it on purpose so they would think he was broke and wouldn't ask him He wouldn't take the money if someone offered either Comment from : Andrew Bermea |
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I started lending siblings money out of love and faith and all I ever received back was disrespect (by the lies they made up to suck me financially dry) getting yelled at (for not wanting to give them more money) and being abandoned by not wanting to return the money Comment from : Maria Perez |
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My brother drained me with non stop money requests, until I yelled at him while mom also picked my side He didn't call me for the next eight months Up to that point he called me sweetly and stressed how he regretted how he always asked for money Right after the apology he just happened to need some money After giving him the money another incident of needing money followed up And that's where I hung up during the second call Isn't it always fishy how their money problems are way too long and detailed They do that on purpose which will make you lose track of the story, because they don't have real money problems It takes a few words to utter what's going when you're really in trouble Comment from : Maria Perez |
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Great respect to this women what she said is 100 correct in my opinion Comment from : vice haiti |
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Exactly what happened to me I loaned someone who I thought was a friend money, I never saw my money ever again He was full of excuses and we fell out over it I swore never to do that again BUT I did do it again Just recently another friend hit me up for $50 and that blew out to $300 over the course of 2 weeks So now the relationship has soured I never ever ask anyone for money Now I feel like an idiot for doing it Comment from : Scott Davey |
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How can someone pay you back if they have no money in the first place? Comment from : TheAMBULOCETUS |
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I don't believe in money lending, I just believe in giving It's not money I end up giving to friends, but buying them something as a Birthday or Christmas gift or just returning a favor Comment from : James Reed |
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What I’ve learned over the last few years: borrow money, don’t lend money, and never co-sign for someone Comment from : Mike |
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As they say you should never mix business and pleasure Comment from : Eowyn |
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Lending to Friends and Family should be the last resort, the relative have to be unemployed suddenly, dead broke to a extremeAlways give them advice to get it from other sources like driving for Uber, Lyft, Door Dash or Payday loan should be their plan B Comment from : LT |
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I neither borrow nor lend Comment from : Abdullah Al-Shimri |
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Lending money, especially to friends, is one way to find out their respect (or lack thereof) for you A lesson learned Comment from : Wandering Nowhere |
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If someone ask me to borrow money I ask them I got some jobs I need done the rate is $10 hr, They always say no They just won't to borrow That's how I get rid of them Comment from : Dogan |
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When people refuse to lend money one may think they are selfish and don’t like to help people Wrong! Coz people that borrow like to abuse People are more likely to value the money more than the person My advice is don’t give money to anyone unless your giving them a gift or charity Comment from : Queen of England |
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I just “lent” a bunch of money to an old friend … in reality what I really did was gift the money I don’t know how or when I’ll ever get it back We’ve known each other 4 decades … I am in a much more comfortable position in life than my friend of similar age, who had many medical problems/ complications brSo, I just gave them some temporary help to ease them through a stressful time They profusely promise to repay me … but I just say “… take as much time as needed, and focus on paying the high interest bearing debts down first” brThe amount of money is substantial, yet not more than I’m willing to lose if it’s never paid back brThat’s the way it has to be viewed Only lend what you’re comfortable with never seeing again Comment from : Smallstudio Design |
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Become that competent so that you never have to ask money from anyone Start saving from a young age Comment from : Sober Guy |
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My internet provider guy showed up at my door asking for money for his personal reasons I clearly denied giving him any He told he has EMI pending and shit I wasn't botheredbrb*You should never ask your customers for money*/b Period If you can't get your finances straight better sell what you can't pay off It's that simple People wanna hold on to belongings they can't pay off for, bloody fools Comment from : Atharva Ketkar |
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We have a friend who went around asking for loan but will settle for a gift Start with 10k but will settle at 2k Quite a hi level of success knowing that they can hinge on emotion of the lenders They would ignore whatever financial lessons you send them years ahead Comment from : ronald ng |
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You are wrong it’s too hard teaching idiots about money Comment from : I am A smurf |
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You are absolutley right and that’s why I borrow money from afterpay : zip pay ; klarna pay ; credit cards bank loans and never pay them back !! And I bet you are exactly the same you don’t pay back money either ! You fool no one Comment from : I am A smurf |
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Is there any woman in the world who can lend money Comment from : محمد |
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My dad always said, if you lend money, most times, you will loose money and a friendbrGood vid Comment from : Cristian G |
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Never lend or borrow money If someone wants to borrow money from you even promising it to return back, never give your money because giving is easy but taking it back from borrower is difficult Borrowing or lending money worsens the relationship especially with family and friends So it is better to avoid it However, in some cases if you think someone is in trouble and needs financial help, you can help him/her financially as a token of kindness and charity but never expect it back Comment from : Mir Ishfaq |
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The thing is ,I gave him money and once I stopped to give ,got mad by saying that I am selfish and I don't care about him Well ,a man isn't my child Comment from : Camelia Damian |
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You always true I was Loans to my mom and she’s The true when I need a moneys I Borrowed in my Bank but my mother Borrowed my no paid at and she’s wanted to take my Daughter to Against me so what’s can I do? Comment from : Lam Weldon Weldon |
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I had to learn the hard way as well Comment from : Fri Munya |
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Learned few days ago: lent money, don`t expect to have it back this video is so inspiring, thank you Comment from : Luca Cavalli |
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I lend 500$ today Hope to get it back Comment from : A |
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Yes, I m also guilty of keeping people relying on me 😔😔😔😔 Comment from : Pradyuman Singh |
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Actually the relationship changed the moment the person asked for a loan A better idea is to have the talk before the question about loaning money comes up Eg, ask your friend or family member what their thoughts are about loaning money to friends or family and make sure both understand they aren't to ask Comment from : The Peter Dislike Show |
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